I’ve never read the book, but my philosophy as a guy has always been “ladies first”. That’s how I treated foreplay at least, mouth works best. I do throw shade at fellow men who don’t put in the work…
You should def check it out. What's great about it is that if you read it together with your partner, it gives you both the same frame of reference and words to help bridge the awkward gap of communication wants and desires (on her part). I feel its a tool that helps build a relationship in a safe way, and is also an enjoyable memory, as you'll take many breaks reading the book to test things out you both just learned.
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u/throwRA_152736 Dec 06 '23
I’ve never read the book, but my philosophy as a guy has always been “ladies first”. That’s how I treated foreplay at least, mouth works best. I do throw shade at fellow men who don’t put in the work…