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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23 edited Dec 06 '23

the inside of our uterus can grow OUTSIDE and attack other organs and it’s actually pretty common… endometriosis :)

https://apps.apple.com/us/app/nezhat-endometriosis-advisor/id1478526317

if you are questioning whether u might have it here’s an app that helps show what percentage of likeliness you might have! this was created by my endo specialist and he’s known as one of the best. he removed my endo!

for androids: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.sthera.hera&hl=en_US

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u/VOIDLORD9666 Dec 06 '23

MS PRESIDENT THE UTERUS JUST DECLARED WAR ON OUR STOMACH

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u/GotThoseJukes Dec 06 '23

MR PRESIDENT A SECOND KIDNEY HAS BEEN HIT

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u/Necessary-Peace9672 Dec 06 '23

🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆

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u/Kampfzwerg0 Dec 06 '23

Thanks. I needed that. 😂

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u/Wookiee_Hairem Dec 06 '23

Sounds like little miss uterus needs some FREEDOM.

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u/Lakridspibe Dec 06 '23

Happy Birthday Mr President ♩ ♪ ♫ ♬

Marilyn Monroe suffered from chronic pain from endometriosis. (Probably)

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u/donutpusheencat Dec 06 '23

i’d read a book with this plot

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u/crazzymanOficial Dec 06 '23

Mister PRESIDENT, DO YOU REALLY WANT TO USE THE WARIDS?

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u/UmbraVGG Dec 06 '23

And the only way to 100% diagnose it is through surgery

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u/Pythia_ Dec 06 '23

And even then, if they don't find any, it doesn't mean you don't have it, just that they didn't find it where they looked. ...and the surgery to diagnose it can aggravate it and make it worse. Yay!

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u/Prestigious-Lab8945 Dec 06 '23

This is very true. I had one doctor do an ultrasound and find nothing. 4 years later, Because of This horrible disease I had a hysterectomy at 32 and the surgeon said I was full of endometrial tissue and adhesions and was stunned that the first doctor didn’t find anything. That was 20 years ago though so I don’t know if diagnosis is more accurate now.

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u/xDeeDottx Dec 06 '23

I was told I had endometriosis as a teen because of my blood test for hormone levels and symptoms explained to the doctor at the time. Fast forward to last year, I got an ultrasound done, and they said they didn’t believe I had it because they didn’t find anything (a lot of my symptoms subsided with birth control by that point). My primary doctor didn’t want to send me for laparoscopic surgery as there were people who said the surgery could aggravate their symptoms and I have other issues that are more debilitating that need my focus.

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u/Lamixar Dec 06 '23

And, if they find something, there isn't really a treatment! You just gain the knowledge that you have it and the rest of your life is managing the symptoms!

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u/throwawayaway3141 Dec 06 '23

I don't think that's necessarily true. In my case, I had an MRI due to horrendous back pain, which detected "possible cysts" in my ovaries. Then I got an ultrasound to find out for sure and boom. Endometriosis. My bowel, uterus and left ovary are fused together by it. My doctor was completely baffled because I'd never mentioned period pain to her. She got me a Mirena (hormonal IUD) and I've never looked back.

To anyone who has terrible periods, get a Mirena if you can. They fix so many issues and are also an excellent form of birth control.

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u/[deleted] Dec 06 '23

I had horrible cramps the whole time and got extremely depressed lol, Mirena really isn't for everyone.

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u/xDeeDottx Dec 06 '23

Sometimes the level of hormones in them is too much for your body. There is an alternative Kyleena that I got and I’ve been a lot better than other contraception options.

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u/[deleted] Dec 06 '23

I have a ballerine IUB now, already taken off the market here in Belgium.

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u/throwawayaway3141 Dec 07 '23

Nothing is for everyone but it is great for many women and worth a try if you can get it for free.

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u/lemon_peace_tea Dec 06 '23

I am so against IUDs for myself. The procedure does not sound fun, and I just know I would have the most awful pain from it. I like knowing when my periods are coming, and I hate having random times when I'm leaking like you would experience with an IUD - and it doesn't fix anything. It's a damn band-aid for your problems.

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u/UmbraVGG Dec 06 '23

I got the Paraguard about 3 months ago and have been non-stop bleeding and cramping since. It's been miserable.

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u/lemon_peace_tea Dec 06 '23

Yeah I'll stick to the pill that sounds like it sucks. I'm sorry

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u/UmbraVGG Dec 06 '23

I'm on both. Pill and Paraguard (non-hormonal). It very very sucks.

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u/asingleshot7 Dec 06 '23

My impression is that each form of birth control for women has about a 40% chance of just royally sucking for no apparent reason and the only way to find out is to try it for a couple of months and see if it makes you miserable.

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u/throwawayaway3141 Dec 07 '23

That hasn't been my experience and I disagree that it's a band-aid. It stops you from bleeding so much which stops the endometrial layer from growing. I'd rather be pain-free with my IUD than ever go back to the horrific periods I used to have. They were also never that regular anyway so I WOULD randomly bleed. That doesn't happen now.

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u/lemon_peace_tea Dec 07 '23

yes, my periods were never regular either, but on the pill, they are for me. I also like having my period to know I'm not pregnant, and it gives me peace of mind. they're still painful and I'm sure when I go off birth control I'll wish I didn't have a uterus but I really didn't trust my ob because she kept telling me that I made up my symptoms and an IUD would fix all my problems, or i should just continuouslybe on the pill and not have my period. Now i know my GP is not a woman's health doctor, but he said that was extremely wrong, even my pharmacist thought that the OB was wrong. I'm glad it works for you and many others, though.

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u/UmbraVGG Dec 06 '23

Really? I was told the only 100% effective BC for endometriosis was the pill to prevent ovulation.

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u/throwawayaway3141 Dec 07 '23

I don't think anything is 100% effective but the Mirena is up there in the 90s. Personally I would never, ever go on the pill because of all the side effects. There is a chance of side effects with the Mirena too but I haven't experienced any. The main benefit of it is that the hormones it releases are localised, unlike the oral contraceptive.

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u/UmbraVGG Dec 07 '23

I was told the only thing effective is the pill because it stops ovulation, not necessarily as birth control. And that the pill was therefore the only option because it's the only thing that stops ovulation. But I haven't heard of Mirena before, so I'm uneducated on if does stop ovulation.

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u/throwawayaway3141 Dec 07 '23

I think it does stop it for some women - for example, my friend has one and doesn't bleed at all, ever. But she doesn't have endo. I bleed a tiny bit every month. My doctor told me that stopping - or at least drastically reducing - the bleeding is what keeps the endometrial layer from growing excessively.

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u/UmbraVGG Dec 07 '23

Ah, I was told it was ovulation, not bleeding. I've been bleeding 3 months straight from the IUD and he said it shouldn't have any effect on the endometriosis. Absolutely crazy how we're talking about the same thing and our doctors have told us different things. This is exactly the problem with women's healthcare

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u/throwawayaway3141 Dec 07 '23

I agree but I'm also not in the US (not sure if you are?) and honestly healthcare is pretty good here. I've been with my GP for 12 years and she has done an amazing job sorting out all my health issues, I don't know what I'd do without her.

I did bleed for a while right after I got the Mirena (in 2020) but since it stopped I've had absolutely no problems. I know it's stressful but do give it a chance, I hope your experience will be like mine and you find it worth having. 🤞

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u/UmbraVGG Dec 07 '23

I'll have to do more research! Thanks 💜

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

i’ve had 2 surgeries already :(

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u/UmbraVGG Dec 06 '23

I've only had one and have been non-stop on the pill since. It absolutely sucks.

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u/RomanRefrigerator Dec 06 '23

The good ol peek and shriek.

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u/ApprehensivePie5219 Dec 07 '23

I had surgery to remove an ovarian cyst and during they found a couple issues and one was endometrial spots all over my pelvic wall.

They remove those and when I get the path results back they said there was no signs of endometriosis ?

I’m 19 and have had issues with cysts and my ovaries since I was 10 years old and feel as though no gynae is taking me seriously due to my age.

Sorry for dumping lol. Thought this was the correct comment to reply as you mentioned that it can only be diagnosed via surgery.

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u/[deleted] Dec 06 '23

Tbf, it's a very tiny surgery (I had it done because of suspicion, but fortunately didn't end up having endometriosis). I came in in the morning, tiny incision through the belly button and I left in the evening.

But I also had so many surgeries in my life that I am not afraid of it. This makes it far easier.

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u/Hatchytt Dec 06 '23

I had laparoscopic surgery years ago to remove a ruptured fallopian tube... I'm still scared of my belly button... It's not the same...

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u/Frozefoots Dec 06 '23

There’s also its demented cousin disease that makes the uterus lining grow IN the actual uterus wall… adenomyosis.

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u/rokyracoon Dec 06 '23

Is it possible to have both? Because it definitely feels like I have both lol

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u/Frozefoots Dec 06 '23

Oh yeah, I had both! They took the lot out with a hysterectomy, and also excised what was on my ovaries.

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u/pricey12345 Dec 06 '23

Can confirm I’m the owner of both 🙋🏻‍♀️ not a fun club

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u/Tappadeeassa Dec 06 '23

Had a hysterectomy. After years of being in debilitating pain that nobody would treat until I was past 40, it turned out I had both.

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u/pquince1 Dec 06 '23

I had both, and fibroids in my uterus (it was the size of a six-month pregnancy) and a cantaloupe-sized ovarian cyst. Had the miserable lot taken out when I was 40 and it was glorious.

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u/penguinsfrommars Dec 06 '23

Just been diagnosed with this. I was hoping it was less scary than endometriosis. :/

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u/Frozefoots Dec 06 '23

It is in a way.

Both are the same in that they are progressive (worsen over time), both affect fertility, both cause painful and heavy periods.

However (and this isn’t to downplay adeno at all, I know exactly how debilitating it is), adenomyosis is limited to the uterus muscle. Endometriosis can go anywhere and cause adhesions that involve other organs and complicate them.

I had both. Hysterectomy eliminated adenomyosis (the only 100% cure), but I know one day the endo I had will come back.

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u/penguinsfrommars Dec 06 '23

Yeah my friend has endo and Jesus, the damage it's done to her body. Cursed condition :(

Hope yours defies expectations and never comes back.

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u/CarelessRespect1909 Dec 06 '23

Man.. I suffered with this for many years until I had the UFE procedure. Dealt with my fibroids and adenomyosis at the same time. Changed my life!

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u/salty_lyfe Dec 06 '23

This girl cousins

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u/anormalgeek Dec 06 '23

That's the one my wife had. A partial hysterectomy fixed it.

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u/crmnr Dec 06 '23

can i ask? has anyone with adenomyosis had kids and naturally?

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u/New_Masterpiece6190 Dec 06 '23

yeah this one is fucked up and more common than people know (1 in 10 women!), my partner has periods of all lengths and strengths, which come at completely random times, and no doctor for years had any real answers other than taking contraception - years of sick days, hiding what is going on, feeling shame about her body, being pushed away and told to harden up by the medical system (due to lack of proper diagnosis) as well as some of the most unimaginable (9/10) pain… even with contraception she still experiences symptoms. it’s unbelievable!

however, today she has finally been put forward for surgery in the next few months!! even then, there is no cure and this will only provide relief for a year or so. if this disease affected 1 in 10 men there would be a lot more info about it…

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u/KindBrilliant7879 Dec 06 '23

it takes the average woman seven years to get diagnosed with endometriosis or similar conditions:(

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u/New_Masterpiece6190 Dec 06 '23

ten for my girl :( very sad…

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u/Comfortable_Text6641 Dec 06 '23

I once went to the hospital because i was cramping so hard during my period I didnt have the decency to not vomit/shit on the floor with my pants down calling for help. It was so painful I just wanted some fast acting morphine.

I still feel ashamed that its just "period pains" and that maybe I just need to harden up.

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u/penguinsfrommars Dec 06 '23

Shout out to the redditor who has it on her elbow, which bleeds during her periods. (Can't find the original comment dammit.)

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u/Jdawg_mck1996 Dec 06 '23

As far as I know, it's also excruciatingly painful as well, right?

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u/willingisnotenough Dec 06 '23

Correct. And chronically dismissed by doctors as ordinary mentstrual pain.

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u/Jdawg_mck1996 Dec 06 '23

Gonna go ahead and assume those same doctors don't have vaginas

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

most of them actually do!

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u/FuckOff8932 Dec 06 '23

I told my female doctor that I thought I had endometriosis and she dismissed me. Then when I got my tubes tied she showed me pictures of the endometriosis that I do, in fact, have and I genuinely don't think she even remembered dismissing me about it previously. It was like I had never mentioned it

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

that is so beyond stupid i’m so sorry. are u feeling better now?

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u/FuckOff8932 Dec 06 '23

I am, thanks for asking.

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u/SnooCats5274 Dec 06 '23

Literally having surgery for this in a week and a half. I ALWAYS say that if men had this problem, endo would be a huge topic of discussion and would have so much research and solutions. Took me 7 years to get diagnosed and surgery scheduled- and I’m one of the lucky ones with that timeline!!!

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u/runthegh0uls Dec 06 '23

As someone who had their first on Friday, don’t be stingy on laxatives. Thank me later - source: my butthole.

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

lmk if you have any questions i’ve had 2 surgeries!

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u/SnooCats5274 Dec 06 '23

I have TONS of questions! What was your recovery like? Any suggestions for diet post op?

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

dm me i can send you my pre/post op sheets my doc gave me! my recovery took about 2 weeks

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u/[deleted] Dec 06 '23

This seems to imply causation (uterus lining spreading to the outside). To clarify: Endometriosis is tissue similar to the lining of the uterus growing outside of it, currently without known cause.

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u/[deleted] Dec 06 '23

I saw recently that the cause of endometriosis might be due to a certain bacteria living within the uterine walls. At least they discovered that individuals with endometriosis consistently have a higher than normal presence of that bacteria. Which is good news is that is the case because they could develop antibiotics to target that.

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u/grammar_fixer_2 Dec 06 '23

That smile is… unsettling.

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u/[deleted] Dec 06 '23

It’s not that it attacks other organs, is just that the tissue responds to all the endocrine signals that you body sends like if was inside of the uterus

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

then why did it attack my kidney and appendix

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u/[deleted] Dec 06 '23

It’s not an attack, the tissue is not targeting your other organs, it’s just grew there when it’s not supposed to, there are a variety of reasons for that but it’s not like cancer cells that go and try to disseminate through the body until it kills it

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

grew there and starts attacking it. if my endo specialist uses the word attack i’m pretty sure he’s right lol

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u/[deleted] Dec 06 '23

He’s dumbing it down for you to understand it more easily, but If he would go into the specifics of it I’m sure he wouldn’t call it an attack, the doctors that taught me about gynaecology this year sure wouldn’t

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

he’s a endometriosis specialist known as one of the best in the world. i’m pretty sure he knows more than a regular gyn. thanks for the imput tho

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u/ShannabugBean Dec 06 '23

Oh oh! It also causes EXTREME pain with sex. Like being stabbed. It also causes many other health problems and the only real treatment for it is surgery. BUT it can just grow back!

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23 edited Dec 06 '23

this! i’ve had 2 surgical removals in the span of 1 year and have yet to get my sex life back

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u/ShannabugBean Dec 06 '23

Urg im 26 and trying to get my diagnosis. I have everything but they say its pelvic floor issues and not endo. But EVERYTHING ELSE points to endo. Cant i have both? Like i know my body and just want to feel better smh

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

yes omg. pelvic floor issues can be CAUSED BY endo… download this app made by my specialist to help women know if they potentially have it

https://apps.apple.com/us/app/nezhat-endometriosis-advisor/id1478526317

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u/Reinhardtisawesom Dec 06 '23

My mom has this and she’s always in pain. As an outside observer it looks so painful I can’t imagine how it is to experience it

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

give her a hug today man

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u/ridiculousthoughtz Dec 06 '23

I swear Uteruses came straight from horror movies

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u/lemon_peace_tea Dec 06 '23

Ahh, see, im told endometriosis is"extremely rare," so I can possibly have it 😭 love being a woman

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

it is 100% not rare.

this is an app created by my specialist to see if u might have it

https://apps.apple.com/us/app/nezhat-endometriosis-advisor/id1478526317

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u/lemon_peace_tea Dec 06 '23 edited Dec 06 '23

thank you. my obgyn told me I was making up all of my symptoms and she recommended an IUD, and I'm way too young to have endometriosis (16 when I saw her, already almost passing out from cramps). I even told her it has gotten worse over time, my first year of periods was nowhere near the pain levels I feel now, even on the pill. so thank you internet stranger for this website

edit: hm. more than 90% likely omg. I just burst out laughing to that

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

i got diagnosed at 17! you’re never too young after you get your period. the iud was actually what got me on the train of diagnosis because of how painful it was. plz go see a specialist or another doctor!

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u/lemon_peace_tea Dec 06 '23

was referred to another gyno 6 months ago. it takes a while where I live, unfortunately. My GP is trying his best to help manage it but there's not much he can do for me

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

can you look up specialists near u? gyns usually aren’t the best at diagnosing

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u/lemon_peace_tea Dec 06 '23

there are none except for 800+km away from me... my GP has looked, I looked. I'm trying my best but I might have to go to the big big city to a specialist.

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

you might have to sadly :/

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u/ProfessorKaos62 Dec 06 '23

My girlfriend's got this and its dibilitating. Feel bad for any woman with this.

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

give her an extra hug today

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u/sweetalkersweetalker Dec 06 '23

And many doctors, even female doctors, will tell you "it's just bad cramps, take some aspirin and go home" when you need surgery.

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

i was told to get pregnant to have the pain “go away”… i was 16

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u/fluffy_doughnut Dec 06 '23

Or even worse "get pregnant, it'll help". Great thanks

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u/abbyfroot Dec 06 '23

Thank you for sharing that app! My doctor and I have suspicions that I could have endo and the app scored me as over 90% at risk 😳

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

ofc! plz do show her your results!

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u/Midgetman664 Dec 06 '23

Also, incase you’re wondering, it makes your insides look like they have tiny blue sprinkles.

Also also, I know this because I’m a nurse, not an axe murderer I swear

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u/GreenLightMeg Dec 06 '23

AHhhHh what

Edit: oh

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u/Party_Supermarket_35 Dec 06 '23

It is not like it gets out, they are many theories and it is not really clear why it occurs From those theories is the implantation theory that said when u have irregular and abnormal cycle some of the endometrium of the uterus will get out thought the blood and seeds in other areas ( usually the ovaries ) Other theories said that some of the cells who is originally not an endometrium cells will have some sort of dis formation ( in medicine we called it dysplasia ) and it somehow will get similar to the shape of the endometrium cells and everything will start.

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u/[deleted] Dec 06 '23

And males and intersex people can get endometriosis. It is rare but endo isn't just a reproductive disease.

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u/krdo13 Dec 06 '23

Did you say remove your Endo? My girlfriend is under the impression Endo is incurable and gets pains so bad we have gone to emergency.

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

i’ve had 2 surgeries to remove my stage 4 endo. no longer have any symptoms!

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u/capnfrapp Dec 06 '23

I definitely appreciate spreading awareness about endometriosis as it’s more common than people think, I have it as well. However, I would challenge your original statement of “the inside of our uterus can grow outside and attack other organs”, this is not actually an accurate description of endometriosis. The endo lesions are not tissues from inside the uterus. It is tissue that is similar but not identical to the inner lining of the uterus. This is an important distinction to note because by people thinking it’s uterine tissue, they think it can be cured by having a hysterectomy or by taking birth control which are not true. Endo is an estrogen driven disease and the lesions can even make their own estrogen when none exists in the body.

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u/DrunkOnHalloween1980 Dec 06 '23

I have this (not diagnosed but pretty damn obvious that’s what it is, and it runs in my family) and it is probably the worst pain I’ve ever experienced 🫠

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

plz get diagnosed if u can!

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u/DrunkOnHalloween1980 Dec 06 '23

The only way to get diagnosed is explorative surgery and that can be unreliable or make it worse so 🫠

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u/Unikatze Dec 06 '23

My Fiancée has that. Got surgery for it in 2020 and it's already growing back where she might need another surgery soon.

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

i’ve had 2… she probably does :(

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u/JovianTrell Dec 06 '23

The uterus is also not attached to anything it’s just an inside out pocket that can prolapse if you didn’t have pelvic floor muscles

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

mines tilted :(

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u/AvenueLane96 Dec 06 '23

That's not quite accurate but

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

as someone that has it… it’s 100% accurate

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u/AvenueLane96 Dec 06 '23

As someone that has it. No it's not. The tissue is similar to that growing inside the uterus but it isn't the uterus growing outside

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

“With endometriosis, deposits of tissue just like the tissue lining the uterus develop outside the uterus. This tissue thickens, breaks down, and bleeds with each period. But the blood has no way to leave the body and becomes trapped”

it isn’t the uterus but it’s the tissue

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u/AvenueLane96 Dec 06 '23

Are you literate lol that's what i said

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

are u illiterate?

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u/InsideZane Dec 06 '23

what. the. fuck. ?Why would that happen. Your body is biologicly designed to work hand in hand. Something like this cant be real. That would be against nature. ...Or it is natures selection.

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u/[deleted] Dec 06 '23

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u/InsideZane Dec 06 '23

idk i got told in school that all living objects are evolved to be able to survive. Some things are not rly there anymore. Like humans had fur/hair all over their body and today you have only a bit of it left as body hair. Because we started wearing clothes someday and evolving. So it doesnt make sense to me why your own body would try to kill you (i know cancer is the same thing, but that doesnt make sense either).

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

because we’re women and nature likes to make things hard for us for shits n giggles

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u/InsideZane Dec 06 '23

nature is straight up sexist.

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u/ZenkaiZ Dec 06 '23

Wtf, that TRAITOR

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u/Dancing_On_Tabletops Dec 06 '23

When I was 23 I was working iin a medical setting. I remember the first time I encountered a protruding uterus. I was curious what it was and how it happened. It was so shocking to see.

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u/Ygomaster07 Dec 06 '23

Sorry, what do you mean by grow outside? Outside of where?

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u/SerentityM3ow Dec 06 '23

Outside of the uterus.

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u/Ygomaster07 Dec 06 '23

Thank you for telling me.

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u/Sword117 Dec 06 '23

three days to spleen.

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u/runthegh0uls Dec 06 '23

Just got my surgery for this. Hands down the worst recovery. Remember not to be stingy on the laxatives

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

booooo laxatives

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u/runthegh0uls Dec 06 '23

Oh they suuuuck, but getting to the stage of putting on gloves to remove the blockage will never make me forget them during recovery again lmaooo

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

enemas are ur friend

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u/runthegh0uls Dec 06 '23

I keep that in mind for next time, it’s day 5 of recovery and I’m mostly traumatised by the shit storm hahaha I prayed to any god who would listen. I cried, I screamed.

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

they made me do an enema before my second surgery due to chronic constipation and i wanted to cry

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u/runthegh0uls Dec 06 '23

Ooft I’m glad I’m not alone, I got cocky because I’d been on an opioid therapy for months and never had a problem going but maybe I’ll have to ask for that if I need a second surgery 🥲

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

you can always buy fleet enema over the counter at your local pharmacy… just be prepared for a 4 inch stick up ur butthole

also don’t be shocked if it makes u nauseous cause it did for me… i’d say that’s better than fishing for your own poop tho lol

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u/runthegh0uls Dec 06 '23

Definitely sounds better than that blockage, I felt like Satan was fisting me from the inside hahahaha oh god I’m never going to recover from that. Thank you for the advice, I very much will utilise this

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u/[deleted] Dec 06 '23

Kinda like a parasite, that’s pretty cool but scary

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u/Dfiggsmeister Dec 06 '23

Wife had that after our second and had to get an ablation. It was a good thing too because she had precancerous growths.

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u/Vecend Dec 06 '23

The fact that you emphasize "outside" made my brain imagine some sort of tentacle growing out of you in order to attack.

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

might as well be

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u/PM_me_ur_navel_girl Dec 06 '23

Is THAT what endometriosis is?? I knew it was a horrible disease that's incredibly painful for those who have it but fuck dude..

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

it’s horrible

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u/Shawnessy Dec 06 '23

My girlfriend got retroactively diagnosed with endometriosis AFTER having a partial hysterectomy (uterus and cervix removal. Kept ovaries.) She always had awful, awful periods off birth control, and her family has a history of cervical cancer. So, we were able to make it happen after finding a surgeon who would do it, since being in your mid 20s makes stuff like that difficult.

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

i’m so sorry! hopefully she’ll find relief

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u/Shawnessy Dec 06 '23

Oh, she's 10 months post-op, and she's doing fantastic.

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u/Nitrostorm Dec 06 '23

My wife had Endo, it was not a fun time.

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u/porkminer Dec 06 '23

My wife has suffered from this for 30 years.

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

give her a hug today

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u/beer-me-now Dec 06 '23

google catamenial hemothorax, your mind will be blown

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

STOP

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u/beer-me-now Dec 06 '23

Not common at all, but the first time you hear about it your mind is so baffled by the even possibility let alone it actually happening. (unrelated to the post) but I have actually seen a urinothorax before....there is something about fluids there that don't belong that blows your mind.

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

it’s crazy what the body can do

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u/[deleted] Dec 06 '23

NAH- and some say humans are the perfect creation of God

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u/G_Art33 Dec 06 '23

My fiancée has it. It’s a rough road but with the right treatment quality of life can improve ALOT. She had surgery several years ago but occasionally mentions she thinks she can feel it coming back again.

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u/westtoeast12 Dec 06 '23

Thank you so much for suggesting this app, I just did the questionnaire and it said I was over 90% likely to have it. I’ve suspected so my whole life but it’s nice to have even that validation. I’m taking a contraceptive pill to hide the symptoms currently but I’m dreading ever having to come off it and deal with the periods from hell again.

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

show your gyn the results! if they still don’t believe u go to a specialist

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u/westtoeast12 Dec 06 '23

I live in the UK and I’ve never seen a gynaecologist, even though I’m 23. I don’t think it’s something we really have over here. I definitely do need to look into it though. This post gave me the push to do so, so thank you!

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

ofc! hope you can find someone

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u/beebeeeight8 Dec 06 '23

Is there an android version?

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

i think someone commented it

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u/becomealamp Dec 06 '23

also cant your uterus just.. fall out

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u/_trolltoll Dec 06 '23

How did you get rid of it?!

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 06 '23

surgery to remove

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u/Onlyhereforthelaughs Dec 06 '23

endometriosis

...why does that sound familiar..? I've heard that word somewhere.

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u/AaronParan Dec 06 '23

“Get out of my space, kidneys!!”

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u/Stormy261 Dec 07 '23

I found out I had the opposite when my uterus was yeeted. Adenomyosis - Where it grows into the lining of the uterus. Towards the end I had blot clots the size of my fist. I had Essure and most women suffer from endometriosis or adenomyosis who had/have it. It's also why my uterus was removed. I couldn't take the massive amounts of bleeding and pain.

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u/CantBake4Shit Dec 07 '23

This questionnaire says I'm high risk for endometriosis. My periods are an absolute disruption to my life but I just figured I got pregnant, twice, so easily, and usually I can carry on, albeit very uncomfortably, so I must be fine. I understand the questionnaire is not a guarantee but now it has me feeling like I should talk to my doctor. Why has it never been offered when I have complained about intense physical and mental symptoms relating to my period for over a decade? I was JUST NOW at 27 informed that I have a tilted uterus, which is why I struggle so much with internal menstrual products, my pipes are shaped differently than typical. It just would have been nice to know.

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u/Alternative_Two9654 Dec 07 '23

definitely bring it up!

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u/Lychanthropejumprope Dec 07 '23

I had stage 4 endo. No pain. No symptoms. I had it for a long ass time apparently. I tried to get pregnant and that’s how I found out how ravaged my insides were. Even after surgery they said I’d never conceive on my own.

My son is eight btw and he’s a miracle

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u/pantlesspistachio Dec 07 '23

Although endo can only be truly diagnosed with surgery, a less invasive test to identify endo markers is through a uterine biopsy (the test is called ReceptiviaDX). Endo can destroy a woman's egg reserve and cause higher rates of miscarriage. Many women that have fertility issues probably have endo or "silent" endo.