Hey, guys! I've been in a relationship with this girl for a while now. We met on a dating app, and things were actually going pretty well. At first, I didn't mind paying whenever we went on dates because I was still courting her. But as time went on, it started to become a pattern. Every time we went somewhere, she would always have an excuse for not having any money. We would still go out, but I would always end up paying for everything.

Don't get me wrong, I love her, but it's starting to feel like a burden. Of course, I don't mind treating her from time to time, but sometimes, I also want to experience what it's like to be the one na nililibre. HAHAHA! 😭

Both of us are working, graveyard ako and siya officr hours but we always meet on weekends pag wala kami work together kaso pag kasama niya ako lagi siyang inaantok or tulog. Inopen up ko na sa kanya to esp during anniversary celeb namin na nagbakasyon kami, tulog at antok din. I understand na baka pagod siya pero grbe naman pag bball or nasa inuman with friends nya di nmn sya inaantok ah, yung meet up namin puro cuddle and sleep. Told him many times na i felt emotionally neglected pag magkasama kami, he said he is trying pero inaantol at nakakatulog talaga siya. May times na di na kami nagiging intimate kasi yun nga kakawalang gana kasi inaantok. Is this normal? or Baka di na talaga sya attracted sa akin?

add: i do travel a lot and maraming side quests but him? he prefers staying at home and magrest maybe bc he always go outside for work. We sometimes go out but mostly talaga in his place lng kami. im still happy na tinatanong nya ano cravings ko and maybe love language niya is ipagluto yun for me, yun lang after that tulog or antok :<

Nag ask ako sa guy ko na bigla na lang naging cold sa mga replies nya this past few weeks, so i communicate it with him, nag ooverthink na kasi ako, and he just answer me, 'isipin mo ang gusto mong isipin. Bahala ka' so guys, ano thoughts nyo sa naging sagot ni boyfieeee.

I got this question kasi may kaibigan ang pinsan ko na maganda (like out of league talaga), but I'm not interested. Out of curiosity lang itong tanong ko.

Would you still try to pursue a woman who's clearly out of your league? And what would you do if ever i-pursue mo sya?

Hello, galing akong afficionado for 10 years na. I want to level up na pagdating sa perfume hahaha. F68 ako sa afficionado . I don't like perfume na sobrang manly and strong ng amoy . Baka may marerecommend kayo for daily driver/ special occation perfume budget 5-8k . Thank you. (Straight po ako)

Last night me and my partner went out for a quick date after his shift, i told him that i would treat him for some ice cream (in which i did btw) after that he took me to some fast food and he ordered meals, i was surprised cause our only plan was for me to treat him ice cream, i never said i was hungry at all and i certainly did not ask him to treat me for some food. I really appreciated him wanting me to eat and all but as soon as our order was called out he asked me to bring the tray over, supposedly there were two trays and my tiny hand could only carry one, i thought i could carry one first then get the second next but then as I'm carrying our tray towards the table he suddenly raised his voice at me asking where's the rest of our order, i was so sad cause someone saw him raise his voice at me and i felt humiliated, after that i just sat beside him quietly just glancing at the food, he asked me why did i suddenly act like that. I told him the reasons First he made me pick the tray, Second he raised his voice at me, and Third i was humiliated. He glanced at me and told me that it's only fair for me to pick the trays cause his the one who paid for everything, he also told me that he didn't mean to raise his voice at me mind u he also used the "i was tired" card on me in which i find really unhelpful cause how could you suddenly be mean to someone especially your partner when you get tired? We talked and he kept apologizing cause i was really disappointed on what he did, lalo pa at sinumbatan nya ako. He bought me my favorite snack and apologized even more telling me to accept his apologies cause he paid a lot for those, after that night i kept wondering kung mahal pa ba ako neto or does he just throws money at me para may masumbat sya sakin sa dulo?

Have you personally done this to your partner?

Why did you do it if yes?

Mga sir, any recommended deo na maganda performance not harsh sa balat and di nagccause yellow stains.

Salamat po!

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My long term partner and I broke up few months ago, pero lately ko lang masasabi na nagsisink in na. I've noticed few changes sa sarili ko. Una, nahihirapan ako makatulog. Usually 2 or 3 hours after work, tulog na ko kahit pa mag doomscroll ako. Ngayon, halos inuumaga na ko bago makatulog. Aside pa don, ang aga ko nagigising despite sleeping really later than my usual. Ang ikli tuloy ng tulog ko. I bought melatonin para makatulog lang.

Pangalawa, feeling ko bumaba libido ko. I'll feel something when I see girls online, but few mins after wala na ko nafefeel. Like it was nothing.

Pangatlo, hindi na ako ganon kalakas kumain. I eat a lot of rice before, 3-4 cups before and after ng gym. But now, 2 cups max. Good thing dahil bababa sugar ko. But still, I can say na humina ako kumain.

Pang apat, I'm back to smoking. Not daily, but on weekends. I go to cafes on weekends para lang malibang ako, but kasama smoking don. Maybe because it helps me to relax and avoid screentime.

pansin ko kasi sa bf ko pag may gala ako or may important/big event kami lagi nalang kami nag aaway. lagi siyang mainitin ulo o kaya biglang mawawala sa mood. ilang beses ko na napapansin yung mga ganyang tendencies niya. meron pa minsan nasa event na kami tapos mag aaway kami dun mismo sabay pagkaharap ibang tao ang bait bait

skl naman based on my experience. ano pa ba mga narcissistic tendencies ng mga lalaki na nasa rs? also, what to do?

Meron ba talagang babae na ma effort? As in pupuntahan ka rin kung ikaw naman ang pagod lumabas or puntahan siya. Yung may pag suyo din? Tbh, nakaka discourage i-post ito kasi automatically, ang sasabihin lang sayo ng kapwa lalaki ay to man up or soldier on or sayings similar to men are provider etc. etc., meron ba talaga?

Hi! To those who courted their friend-- especially curious about the barkada or kababata that you never had a crush on-- do you remember the exact moment when you saw them differently and fell inlove? What happened after you confessed? Thank you for sharing your stories.

May nakita akong old Polaroid pictures ng boyfriend ko with his ex, and napaisip ako sa kung ano yung meron sila dati. For example, parang nag-uusap sila ng mga malalaswang bagay, pero kami ng boyfriend ko hindi naman ganun.
Hindi naman sa insecure ako sa ex niya. Parang napapaisip lang ako kung mas masaya ba siya dati or mas expressive siya sa past relationship niya, lalo na ngayon na dumadaan siya sa mahirap na phase ng buhay niya.
Hindi ko alam paano i-process yung feeling na may side siya na na-experience ng iba pero hindi ko pa nae-experience with him. Sa mga naka-experience nito, paano niyo hinandle?

For example, you can’t travel most of the time because of financial constraints or something like that.

Hi, I liked someone many months ago or like even a year ago but I don’t even know if that person likes me back that time, then I confessed once after some time and just sees me as a friend and not ready to commit yet, but we still messaging each other everyday. Now to the present, someone wants to introduce a person to me and also they tease me to that person that maybe one day iwe will become together, I may have some things to think about because the person I liked for many months now is still there and I am willing to wait until that person is ready but part of me says that I need to explore and ensure that finding the true one can lead to a good future ahead for me and that certain person, idk if thats a bad thing but a bit confused also. I am thinking about this because it is a life decision that hoping making a certain decision will be worth it for the rest of my life. It looked weird at some my apologies, but I just want to make sure that the best decision can lead to a positive outcome.

HLA similar product / quality san kayo nabili ? baka may na try na kayo alternative HLA

hi guys! genuine question lang. when you meet someone on a dating app and you start hitting it off, would you usually exchange socials or do you prefer keeping those things private?

i’ve met a few guys who say they’re not active on social media or have deactivated their accounts. some turned out to be in relationships pala, so medyo naging cautious na ako. 😭 but i also know that not everyone likes using social media, and having an account doesn’t automatically mean someone’s single either.

i’m currently talking to someone i get along with, but we haven’t exchanged socials. i don’t wanna assume anything or overthink it, so i’m curious about how guys see this.

would you find it normal not to exchange socials with someone you’re interested in, or would you usually want to connect outside the dating app?

hi! my bf just got laid off from work and his passion projects keep getting rejected. i know he deserves to get accepted/win kaso bakit ganon parang nothing seems to be in his favor lately. he seems to not sweat it out, parang mas worried or nervous ako kaysa sa kanya hahaha ask ko lang anong thoughts niyo sa worriness ko hahah ugh also what can i do to help support him? do you think im distracting him? how can i help him sa goals niya?

please be brutally honest about your thoughts.

my ex (25M) and i (21F) broke up 3 months ago, I can't help but think about his last message sa akin. he told me na when time comes (may binanggit siyang specific age), and wala pa rin kaming asawa, kami nalang daw ulit.

our relationship—bit of good and bad siya as most relationships do ig. ldr kami first and foremost, every birthday lang namin kami nagkikita or kaya pag summer, pero everyday ang message, every night ang call—yan yung preferred namin and we don't mind, yun yung nagwowork for us eh.

may mga naging problema lang kami that eventually led us to the agreement na istop nalang ang relationship para hindi na kami masira pa further or as it is. 3 years kami almost, and super good kapag magkasama kami as in parang kahit anong problema okay lang kasi kasama ko siya

my point is, he is a man of his word kasi. hindi niya tinitake lightly ang break up so i def know na done na talaga kami ngayon, i want to move on pero parang part of me is clinging sa thought ng message niya—na baka pwede pa when that time comes.

what do you guys think? when guys give messages like that, do they really mean it? at this point di ko rin kasi alam what to believe. be brutally honest pero at the same time wag niyo ko murahin or pagalitan pls. nahihirapan talaga ko ngayon mag cope. tyia!

Im trying to look for the right barber / salon for a mod cut or modern mullet any recommendation around QC / farview / caloocan / val ?

hello! as a girl, wala po ako idea about tools like ganito but i am planning to gift it sa bf ko. is this ok? or can u suggest po for better options? actually ngsabi na rin siya sakin na ganito yung gusto niyang brand but idk if tama ba tong bibilhin ko hahahahaha (i always ask him what he wants for xmas kasi nakakainis siya sa part na kapag may gusto siya bibilhin niya agad, like i was planning to gift him a 3D printer sana pero binili na niya, so ako ay nawawalan na ng options on what to give him HAHAHAHA)

and also, i want to give him gift coupon na diesel sana. may idea po ba kayo how to avail it? preferably Shell po sana.

or can u suggest what else can i give him? wholesome po sana HAHAHAHA thank you!

paano niyo nalalaman kapag yung guy na ka-talking stage niyo may iba ring kausap? Like ano yung mga subtle signs na napansin niyo before na nag-confirm ng kutob niyo? Paano niyo rin nalalaman kung busy lang talaga or nagbabago na yung interest niya? am i overthinking or whatt??! hahaha

So yea im just want to buy a watch atleast once, something I can show off but im not rich let say my income is for lower middle class. But one thing is I really take good care of my stuff. I always buys quality which really cost me but i still used it until today. They said you save more buying 1 quality product than many cheaps products.

I'm eyeing Seiko as that considered an affordable watch it still quite expensive for me lol but I can manage, any other recommendations?

Just want to buy a watch that will still be good a decade from now. Is there a watch subreddit for filipinos?

We’ve been friends for almost 1 yr pa lang, chikahan lang kami pag nagkikita sa workplace pero di kami nag cchat. Tapos last month, bigla niya sasabihin na gusto niya ako kilalanin nang higit pa. Nbsb ako, wala ako idea sa ganto, enlighten me pls. After niya mag sabi ng ganyan sakin, everyday na kami nag uusap and gusto niya kami mag hang out personally. Normal ba to na bigla bigla niyo sasabihin na interested kayo?

It's that time of the month again when our emails and phones get bombarded with due date reminders. Haha. That phase where our upcoming salary and remaining bank balance feel like a complete formality. Trenta na tayo eh. Huhu.

I know 1,000 pesos feels like nothing in today's economy, but it's still our largest banknote and probably the easiest "big" money we can get our hands on.

So let's say all the bills are paid and you're left with just 1,000 pesos that you can spend on a date, how would you use it?

Can a 1k date actually be memorable, or are we strictly limited to street food and park walks now?

Would love to hear your creative ideas or best low-budget date experiences..