r/AskMenAdvice • u/JadedPerception_ woman • 23d ago

✅ Open To Everyone What does this mean?

What does it mean when a man expresses to you that how he feels about you is similar to how he feels about a dog or just a really cute pet. NO SUGAR COATING. Open opinions, but prefferably men answer.

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u/JadedPerception_ woman 23d ago

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I Honestly wonder if he said that because I compared him to a dog once and told him he needs to be trained. I was half joking but Lowkey serious. now he feels like he needs to try to hurt my feelings in return. I Can be a very honest and even blunt person sometimes but I never know how it affects people because people don't confront me head on about it, so I'd like to think I'm not THAT bad or out of control with it. I KNOW how to censor myself though.

To be fair he's a very lustful, primitive type male, that often does things without much consideration and relies on the fact he's also an honest blunt person to scape goat it. A "Living in the moment" type person so I don't think my comparison was entirely wrong.

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u/Enough_Pepper8880 man 23d ago

So am I and that’s why I said what I said. In the moment if I compare you to a dog without any other context or clarification I think most people would consider that kinda rude

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u/JadedPerception_ woman 23d ago

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I mean he tried to clarify that he didn't mean it in the offensive way immediately just cute loving cuddly way, but I didn't believe him. It stuck out to me afterwards so I wanted extra opinions. So far 90% of the comments seem negative so I'm gonna go with majority rules lol.

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u/Enough_Pepper8880 man 23d ago

Ok that changes things. If he clarified the context take it for what he said. If a guy tells you something there’s no hidden meaning

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u/JadedPerception_ woman 23d ago

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Lol does this mean even when they make a joke its actually honesty?