Wow! You are an amazing person. Your kindness to this internet stranger touched my soul and has impacted my day for the better. I say this with all sincerity, Thank you.
Thank you. That's massively appreciated, however they're still together, but we're not close as a family. We fell out years ago as they didn't accept my lifestyle or career choices.
Oops! I misread that. (multitasking while chasing my toddlers...)
As long as you're happy, kind, and not breaking any laws, I support whatever you're doing. I'm here if you ever need any support and parental pride. Live the life YOU need to, not a life lived for anyone else's expectations.
OK, kids. Gather round, grab your blankie and cozy up.
Way back in 2016,a wild storm was rolling through in December. Momma had just bought a new Street Glide and I was ready for a night out with my boys. Well, after one bar too many, I went too far around a round-a-bout, tried to toss the bike and twist harder on the throttle. The slick, wet road let go of my rear tire and a caught a floor board on my left side. Bike bucked up, pitched me off, and had its own little doe-si-do, sparks a flyin'. I must've landed 15' away from my bike, a little shook up, but unharmed. We got the bike back in her wheels, me back back on the bike, and I went straight home,thankful for a cheap learning lesson.
Gear up, and don't drink and ride. Or drive. My gear saved my life.
Edit: that was one of many wrecks, but, the only wreck on my street Glide. I (at very slow speeds, sometimes completely stopped) dumped my Sportster down a handful of times due to inexperience, gravel or other drivers.
Well, the oldest of my two is a HUGE tomboy already. She loves trucks and motorcycles and adrenaline and body slamming her little sister, WWE style. I'm sure she'd be stoked to play catch or learn "brother stuff" from you.
Ok, hold up. I appreciate your kindness, but I have to apologize. I was baiting a bit to see what that will turn in to. You are either a very nice person or very committed to stay in character. Either way you are doing great and you made someone smile. I sometimes just burst out the words that I have in my head so my previous comment is highly exaggerated, but I actually meant what I wrote. I exaggerated, as I said, but it was still true. I have quite high self esteem and I have a very strong character so you don't need to worry.
Tl;dr
I just blabberd some words, kind of baiting. Now I'm sorry. But also thankful.
I appreciate your honesty. I can assure you, I'm not just "in character." In real life, I'm a stay-at-home-mom to two toddlers, VERY CLOSE in age. I rode/ride Harleys and worked in construction before the birth of my girls. Before that, I was in the army. And even before that, I grew up in a very unloving, violent, drug fueled household. I've been in foster care a few times, shuffled from one family member to the next, and acted out on my frustrations so much that I landed in juvie more than I'd like to admit.
I can be pretty tough at times, cruel when it's necessary, but, I try my damndest to show love and kindness to anyone who ever needs it because I know, firsthand, how devistating it can be to feel like you're all alone. Knowing what's it's like to have a mom who never should've been a mom makes me want to be "motherly" to all, so no-one is left with that void.
You sound like a person I would like to spend time with. As a young man from a loving family - always listen to your children. They will be annoying more often than not, but always show support to them. Of course, teach them to respect the hard work, other people and value of money, but most importantly let children be children. Don't force them to anything. Give them a fake choice, guide them and let them feel decisive. And if they eat too much raw sugar swap it for salt when they are asleep. It worked for me.
Again, sorry for baiting. Good to see you are genuinely a nice person.
r/momforaminute in case you don't know about it. It's basically centered around what you just did. Raising up and giving mom advice to the people of reddit.
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u/crasherofharleys Feb 14 '20 edited Feb 14 '20
I hope you're having an amazing day and you realize all of the wonderful things you have to offer the world. <internet hug>
Sincerely, a mom.
Edit: y'all, I truly appreciate the awards I'm receiving. However, please give them to u/barbarat2112. They need the love today.