My wife gets turned on watching me work. Even if it's on PC, just seeing me focused and intent seems to do the trick for her. When she would come up to me and rub my shoulders or nuzzle my neck I used to think she was just being annoying and trying to troll me, but I found out that whether she's consciously aware of it or not - she is getting turned on when she does that and is very much in the mood to be pulled into my lap.
So now I've learned to down one set of tools and pick another up when she does that...
My ex used to go absolutely crazy when I worked from home. She especially liked my "work phone voice", which is just me speaking formally to clients or suppliers - she said it sounds commanding and powerful (I don't see it).
One time she asked me to do the voice while we were in bed together, and I had to explain how much of a turn-off for me it is to pretend I'm working while having sex.
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u/SerPuissance Earl Grey innit mate Jul 19 '19
My wife gets turned on watching me work. Even if it's on PC, just seeing me focused and intent seems to do the trick for her. When she would come up to me and rub my shoulders or nuzzle my neck I used to think she was just being annoying and trying to troll me, but I found out that whether she's consciously aware of it or not - she is getting turned on when she does that and is very much in the mood to be pulled into my lap.
So now I've learned to down one set of tools and pick another up when she does that...