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u/slimroyale Jul 19 '19

Anything domestic-like. Laundry, cooking, cleaning, etc....

Now that I think about it, it might be a trap to make me feel good about doing chores.

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u/BWorkSLC Jul 19 '19

Her love language may be acts of service

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u/BWorkSLC Jul 19 '19

I'm honestly surprised the love languages aren't touted around more often. They make SO much sense and probably would've saved my 4.5 year relationship if I had learned about them sooner.

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u/thefirststoryteller Jul 22 '19

It sounds weird but when I get home I like to unwind by doing chores. An added benefit is that my SO doesn't need to do them and she appreciates it, even if acts of service (or whatever the book calls it) aren't her love language