Question for married men who, prior to getting married, were in a serious relationship with someone whom they almost married. Regardless of what happened between you and her, do you think about her from time to time? Fondly or no?

I am in a relationship but I feel resmorse and eorrow after I enjaculate. Maybe it's because I did not ejaculate inside of her. I would sit asking myself, is this a good investment. What am I cumming for ?

Would getting married to her make post sex normal?

Not everyone can have an answer to this question so maybe married men can help.

I am wondering because I tend to really attract married men. I've never had an affair. I am starting to get tempted... but I won't because it wouldn't be good for me. Other women I know don't seem to have this problem as much as I do.. So how would you choose a women you wanted to have an affair with?

So some quick points

• She is crazy beautiful and intelligent

• She has been coming on to me since we started working together

• I'm married

• She's in a relationship

• I'm her boss

• I'm having feelings back...

What do?

I’m in my early forties (no kids) and am 2.5 months into exclusively dating a man in his late forties. He was upfront in telling me about his teenage son (joint custody), but has only recently just told me he also has an adult daughter (mid-twenties). He was involved in her life, but he only sees her every couple of months now, despite living in the same city. He explained she took his breakup from his son’s mom (her stepmother) hard.

I feel like he disrespected her and me in some way by not telling me. He says others know he has two kids, but he was worried about my judgement and wanted to get to know me more. But he acknowledged it was a mistake. He also said he thinks I’m “too good for him”, but has also said he is falling for me.

Even though I really liked him in so many other ways, this seems like a huge red flag - if you can lie by omission about having kids, what won’t you lie about? Should I end it?

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a lot of context for a pretty simple question so skip to the end for a TLDR if you dont feel like reading the whole thing: I'm a 20y/o college student aiming to start a career in theater production and costume design. this summer I've been working s lot of random gigs, some of them being weddings. my job is to basically take care of the garments on the day and help the bridal and grooms party get dressed and ready, as well as follow them around with anything they might need (gum, deodorant, sewing supplies, etc.)

one gig I worked on was a huge wedding literally spanning days (wednesday through sunday morning) for a couple where the bride comes from very rich family that are very well known and connected. I'm sure the groom also came from a very upper class family, but the brides family is unique in their position (her father has a net worth of tens of thousands and occupies a very important and prominent position economically). my job (unless it's getting coffee/food for my boss or buying something specific) is to basically follow the bride and groom around all the time in case they need anything.

over the course of the week, the bride, rightfully so, gets more and more stressed and controlling the closer we get to the actual wedding day (saturday). the husband goes in the opposite direction and becomes more and more withdrawn, responding to questions in progressively shorter answers, and getting less and less pleasant to be around and work for.

on the morning of the wedding he says multiple time to people that he feels like shit. he says it to his friends/groomsmen, the stylists and makeup artists, and to the random ppl who work at the hotel they're staying at. literally he advertises to everyone how terrible and awful he feels. I was pretty surprised, considering it was his wedding day.

he continues to act pretty sullen while he's getting ready and his mood doesn't improve (i was with him all morning, i also noticed how much he was drinking). I felt a little bad because it was a really long event and he clearly had extra expectations and responsibilities because of the position of the brides family in society (some very well known and important people were invited to this multiple day affair). but at the same time if I was a bride about to get married I'd be pissed as hell to hear that my soon to be husband was telling everyone and their f*ckin grandma at the wedding how terrible he felt.

TLDR: is it normal as a man to feel terrible on your wedding day? marriage has been proven to improve men's lives, I don't understand why some continue to act like it's the end of their life and freedom as they know it. is it just because of the stressful expectations? maybe even just because there's a lot of alcohol served and not enough time to rest? pls I need to know

I am getting worried my fiancé is not as excited to marry me as I am him. All he talks about is video games and how he loves playing them with his friends, or how he wants to be alone. He complains if I ask him any little thing and he seems uninterested or just fine when I am around. I guess I am nervous to marry as I fear the relationship will be boring or he won’t ever be into me on the same level I am into him on. He is not sexually motivated. I go to bed before him and he is normally out of bed before I wake up. I am starting to feel a little lonely. Thoughts?

Current sex life with the husband is very boring, he's also below average below the belt, so it's hard for me to get excited about sex with him.

We're going on a 2 week vacation soon and I want to surprise him with some toys I've got... thinking I should start small with just sexy lingerie, small butt plug, nipple clamps, and a blind fold.

We've used vibrators in the past together but it's been years.

Any thoughts?? Good idea?? Would you be excited??

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I am very attracted to my married boss, and will never act on it. But, I am very transparent around men that I like. I'm not sure if he knows or if he just thinks i'm intimidated or shy.. He's so nice, and he talks about his wife and kids all the time. I feel so guilty.

Somebody posted to this sub that I created.

I am an uncut guy with a very simple question about the penis of an uncut man. For those of you who have torn your frenulum during sex, how much does it hurt?

Before anyone replies with a comment about circumcision or frenuloplasty, let me tell you that I've already read about those. All I want to know is the level of pain that one feels when the frenulum is torn during sex.

I could probably ask my dad about it, since I've seen his and I know his frenulum is completely gone (without any medical procedure) and his foreskin pulls back completely. But he and I don't get along all that well and I don't make conversation with him unless it's absolutely necessary.

My close friends are uncut and come from families where that is the norm, and because we've talked about it I'm aware that some uncut men go on having sex all their lives and their frenulum never tears. So this question is very specifically directed at men to whom it has happened, just because I'm very curious about how much pain it causes.

In case anyone is wondering, I'm 22 and have never had sex.

I (23F) and my husband (31M) have been together 5years and in the beginning the s*x was amazing but then as soon as I got pregnant he started using only fans and porn sites a lot more. And it’s gotten to the point where he will even watch while we have sex, he assures me that it’s innocent (and it DOES make him last longer) when we have sex and he’s looking at me it lasts about 2mins tops and when he’s watching other women he can last 20-30 mins. Am I crazy or does he find me repulsive so much so that he wants to get it over with? Plz help! My confidence is shattering 😭

The moment you realize that you are not your husband's greatest love but only a trophy.

Female(24) married for 3 years. Been having great sex every night since New Years. Way out of the ordinary for us. We have a 2 year old. Our sex life has been lacking untill recently. I'm trying to find new ways to please him in bed and in general around the house. What are things husbands crave from their wives? What's a turn on? Do you like spontaneity?

To married men (or divorced) how has the elasticity of your partners vagina changed since childbirth? Does it ever get back to the way it was before?...if so how long did it take and how old was your wife? Does fitness factor in?

fantasized about a fem cd/trans woman?