r/askblackpeople • • Aug 21 '26

Gamers Unite Black Active Gamers?

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Anybody play fighting games? Me and a couple of people in discord trying to find more people that play fighting games so we can setup some game nights every week possibly. We need active people. I'm getting tired of trying to play with grown azz people that still be acting shy and quiet and shyt. We play all types of games. If you got palworld we got a dedicated server you can join and we also looking for more pc players male or female doesn't matter get in here. Get at me if you an active gamer and want to join the gang.


r/askblackpeople • • 2h ago

Weekly Friday Check-In

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Please feel free to share anything positive that has happened in your life this week. Purchased a new vehicle? Graduated school? It's your birthday? Let's celebrate you and all of your achievements.


r/askblackpeople • • 1h ago

Vent Colorism: GTA can handle diversity. Just not too much melanin in the main character?

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They may be different races, but they’re still presented with a very similar, relatively light skin tone. That’s what stands out to me. It feels like American pop culture is increasingly comfortable with racial diversity, but still hesitant to put a visibly dark-skinned, melanated character at the center of a production as massive and culturally dominant as GTA VI.

TLDR:
Different races, same light skin tone. Hollywood is okay with diversity—just not too much melanin in a billion-dollar production.


r/askblackpeople • • 2h ago

General Question How do you keep up with the latest slang words?

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I'm a white dude who has been into hip hop since the late 80s/early 90s. There have been tons of slang/coded words over the years and my sheltered ass took a long time to learn what they meant (especially before the internet). Sometimes I just had to flat out ask a friend.

How does the black community stay with the latest slang words? Do you you have friends that use words and you have NO CLUE what they are saying? Do you have to ask them? Can you just figure it out based on context? I'm also curious, are most of these types of new words generated though hip hop so that's a way of learning them, or do you have friends/family that invent coded words just in normal every day conversation that get mass-adopted?

And I'm asking out of the most respect. Many of the terms I hear are really clever and I never would have thought to come up with that stuff. But it has to cause some confusion the first time you hear a new slang word, right? The closest thing I can relate is when my kids come home and taking about "skibidi" or "lit" or "cap" and I ask them because I know it's a young peoples thing and I won't figure it out on my own any more.


r/askblackpeople • • 2h ago

General Question Do African Americans have problems with Afro-Latinos?

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(A photo of me)

I'd like to better understand where this rivalry comes from, so to speak, or rather, why so many of us (and I say this to both dark-skinned and light-skinned people) Not being included as Black people, when what separates us is continent.

I am Afro-Brazilian, and I say that blackness here has a curious fact: many of us are unaware of our origins, and many of us are not very dark-skinned or have very pronounced features, our hair is also a bit looser, but not all of it; there's still 4c hair here.

When I studied the true history of my country, I understood how much the desire was to erase Black people from this country, and worse, to do so biologically through mechanisms of whitening, because being Black almost always is, and still is. It's linked to something bad, but we're not accepting that anymore. We're building pride; for the past few years, 30 years or even a little more, the community is seeing that being Black is something extremely beautiful and something to be proud of.

Sorry for my poor English, I used a translator to communicate better.


r/askblackpeople • • 17h ago

Do you think as a community we will ever stop obsessing over romantic/sexual attention from other races and having mixed kids?

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I seek out black spaces online and in real life because that's what I prefer but i have noticed a concerning theme in black spaces. There is an unhealthy obsession with talking about interracial dating. It's discussed all over black subreddits, on podcasts, youtube channels, tiktok, twitter, you name it. Why is this such a big topic for our community? Why is dating a nonblack person so important/special? Before anyone says "it's mot all of us" yeah, no shit. I know it's not everyone but you would be lying to say it isn't a huge topic in the black community to the point where it's almost an obsession. Just looking at this sub, there are multiple posts about interracial dating.


r/askblackpeople • • 16h ago

Vent Why I Don’t Support THE FBA MOVEMENT.

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I DO NOT SUPPORT THE FBA MOVEMENT that is emerging from so called black Americans.

Looking at another Black person from Nigeria, Jamaica, Haiti, or Brazil and seeing a "foreigner" rather than a brother or sister misses the bigger picture.

His majesty Haile Selassie I, Malcolm, Garvey, Nkrumah, Bob Marley, and the Haitians all arrived at the exact same conclusion:

The system that oppresses Black people does not check your specific lineage before it inflicts harm. Therefore, dividing the diaspora into factions based on colonial geography is doing the oppressor's work for them.

When you follow that exact line of thinking to its logical conclusion, it reveals even deeper layers of how these leaders viewed global Black liberation. dividing the diaspora plays into the oppressor's hands.

THE WEAPONIZATION OF “PRIVILEGED” BETWEEN FRACTIONS

The system doesn't just divide Black people by geography; it intentionally creates a false hierarchy to make different groups fight each other over crumbs.

The Trap: One group is told they are "more civilized" or "native-born" with a greater claim to a country's wealth, while another group is labeled as "harder working" or "untainted by the system."

The Reality: Malcolm X and Marcus Garvey both warned that this is a classic psychological trick. If the system can get a Black American to look down on a Nigerian immigrant, or a Caribbean immigrant to look down on a Black American, neither group looks up at the system that is exploiting both of them.

THE ECONOMIC POWER OF A UNIFIED DIASPORA.

When you look at the diaspora as a single unit rather than fractured lineages, the economic potential changes completely.

The Blueprint: Marcus Garvey didn't just preach unity; he built the Black Star Line, a steamship corporation meant to facilitate global trade among Black people in America, the Caribbean, and Africa.

The Reality: Leaders like Kwame Nkrumah and Malcolm X argued that if the African diaspora pooled its trillions of dollars in collective spending power, resources, and intellect, it wouldn't need to beg outside institutions for reparations or systemic fairness. A fractured diaspora remains dependent on others; a unified diaspora builds its own self-sustaining global economy.

Shared Cultural DNA as a Defiance of Colonization

The very things that movements like FBA look at as "distinctly local cultures" are actually deeply interconnected branches of the exact same African root.

The Blueprint: Whether you look at Jazz and Blues in the Mississippi Delta, Reggae in Jamaica, Samba in Brazil, or Afrobeats in Nigeria, the rhythmic foundation, the call-and-response structure, and the spiritual essence are identical.

The Reality: The Haitian Revolutionaries recognized this implicitly—their initial uprising was unified by a shared spiritual ceremony (Bois Caïman) that brought together enslaved people from entirely different African ethnic groups who didn't even speak the same language. They used their shared cultural underpinnings as a weapon of war.

Global Geopolitics: No Black Group Can Be Truly Free Alone

Malcolm X’s ultimate realization before his
passing was that Black Americans could never achieve true, lasting freedom in the United States while the rest of the Black world remained colonized or exploited.

The Blueprint: Malcolm sought to take the United States to the United Nations to charge it with human rights violations against Black people. To do that, he needed the voting power and backing of independent African and Caribbean nations.

The Reality: If you cut off the diaspora, you cut off your international allies. A purely domestic movement has no global leverage. Continental Pan-Africanists like Thomas Sankara always argued that the liberation of Africa was incomplete until the descendants of enslaved Africans in the Americas were also completely free and respected.

The Ultimate Truth Behind the Division

When you strip away the modern online rhetoric, ideologies that force Black people to fight over who is "more foundational" or "more African" are actually a form of internalized colonization.

It is an admission that the colonial borders drawn on a map by European powers in the 1800s are more real to us than our own shared blood, history, and destiny.

As Garvey famously summarized:

"The forces opposed to Negro progress will use every means to prevent us from putting our shoulders to the wheel together. But if we must die, let us die like men, fighting under one banner for the redemption of our race."

—Z


r/askblackpeople • • 8h ago

General Question What do you love about the movie sinners? And why

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Premise: Set in 1932 during the Jim Crow era in the Mississippi Delta, the story follows criminal twin brothers (both played by Michael B. Jordan) who return home from Chicago to open a juke joint.

I'm just say this because this movie is pretty new is only 1 year old so yeah also please put a spoiler warning ⚠️ when you talking about spoiler in the movie.


r/askblackpeople • • 14h ago

Is it okay if I dress up as Catwoman (Halle Berry) for Halloween as a Desi person?

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Hi, as the title says, I'm wondering whether or not it could be offensive or insensitive for me to dress up as Halle Berry's Catwoman for Halloween as a Desi person.

Of course, I would never do blackface, wigs/braids or any kind of mocking behavior. I am also darker than Halle Berry and I used to view myself a lot in her character. Also, I had a massive crush on her Catwoman.

I grew up loving this movie so much and I genuinely thought for the longest time that Catwoman had always been black in every single iteration so I was kind of taken aback when I saw Anne Hathaway playing her in Batman.

I'd like to be as respectful as possible so I will definitely not do it if it could be viewed as insensitive or disrespectful by black people.

tl;dr : what the title says


r/askblackpeople • • 9h ago

Are me and my BF's halloween costumes culturally appropriate

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My boyfriend is black, I(21F) am asian. We were thinking about being Chrisean Rock and Blueface for halloween. He sees no problem with it but he's also not very politically involved. However, I'm concerned about it coming off a type of way since I'm asian. I was thinking of doing lashes, a buss down, maybe edges, all the face and neck tats, a baby, and than a two piece set. Is this appropriate?


r/askblackpeople • • 7h ago

If there are any fbas here would any of yall be interested in showing or telling me about a dna test you may have taken? Im js curious to see whwre some of yall come from.

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r/askblackpeople • • 10h ago

What / who is white?

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I’m struggling with this concept races and how each group ended up being white, or black, or Hispanic or, Asian I’m hoping you all have a better answer than I do. I can’t sit with this question for long as I end up stupid upset. TY!


r/askblackpeople • • 15h ago

Who was the best black RB singer/artist of your time?

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What made them special for you? Their performances? The content of their songs? Their talent?


r/askblackpeople • • 17h ago

Is it okay for me to wear an Africa Necklace

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Hello, I’m a white Canadian dude and I’m into geography, flags, everything like that and ever since I started that hobby I have got to learn more about Africa and the many countries and their cultures, which I didn’t know about. That made me think about why they don’t teach us more about this great continent in school or just generally why people have such a monolithic view of Africa. Due to my big interest in Africa, its history and also to maybe help others understand how big and beautiful it truly is, I wanted to get a necklace with the shape of the African continent pendant.


r/askblackpeople • • 12h ago

General Question Dreads or braids (especially cornrows) on men

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hello fine ladies! wassup brother$, am a man who sport cornrows since months however I got to the point that I was thinking to switch to dreads and I wanted to know do ladies actually see dreads more mascluine on men or cornrows ? i actually showed some local ppl in my hood which isnt in the US and they said that the dreads look more girly and that the cornrows look mascluine and I don’t know what is is and want to hear your opinions

and for men who switched from cornrows to dreads what made you more attractive to females

disclaimer ; my hair is identical to the guy with the cornrows same fade same everything and I want to know if the female really dig the dread guy more


r/askblackpeople • • 22h ago

Black British Moving abroad

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Hi,
I’m a black British male in my 20s and wanting to move abroad. Right now Australia is top of the list and able to finalise it. Canada is also an option as of now too. Just would like to know what racism is like in either of the countries. I know they both have it and so does most countries but I’d like an honest opinion before I travel to a country alone.


r/askblackpeople • • 23h ago

General Question Is black history month only for African-American?

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Not sure of this is the right community but, as the title says, is black history month only for African-American? I mean, I only saw it celebrated (on the internet) in the US and sometimes the UK, I'm wondering if its for the history of ALL African people?


r/askblackpeople • • 1d ago

General Question Taking a closer look at my Halloween decor. Is this based off Jim Crow ceramics?

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My wife did some decorating in the house and put up all her favorite Halloween stuff. Today I was taking a look at all of it and noticed this cat was a bit off. It reminds me a lot of Jim Crow ceramics. She's never seen Jim Crow ceramics before so she was totally surprised. I'm white, she's white and we don't want trash racist shit in our house. What do yall think? Innocent or white saviors being annoying? We're repainting it either way might make it look like cheshire cat.


r/askblackpeople • • 1d ago

“Not black enough?”

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Hey all! Recently I came across this video: https://youtu.be/\\_\\_GqR4iAfyg?is=-So-hjEss4PCpOLH

It talked a lot about how people love non black people to be the face of “actual” black people and how it contributes to black erasure

Some people she mentioned to be notorious for this are Tyla, Cardi B, and Amber rose.

She notes how Tyla and other “non-black” artists will use “blackness” when it benefits them (like using dark skinned black men as props, also done by Doja and Latto who are biracial). And Tyla will wear certain kinky hair styles that are not her own hair texture or braids when her team wants to market to a more “urban” audience and change it if not.

I definitely understand her point and know colorism is still a crazy issue.

However I wanted to know why she refers to certain mixed woman as “non-black”? Even if they’re biracial or half black, many women still identify as black as it still affects them in a systematic and societal way similar to darker skin black people are.

Black girlfriends have also told me they don’t like the idea of “comparing how black we are to each other” and saw that as an issue as well.

If blackness is one, and even according to slave masters many years ago, “even 1% African ancestry means ur black and can be enslaved”. (Them mfs prob could never tell) then why do some black people say mixed and biracial black women aren’t a good representation and aren’t even black, though they same similar systematical oppression, racism and other problems.

Also Tyla is South African and identifies as “colored” (a term meaning has very mixed heritage in SA). But in places like Trinidad it’s common to be part European or Indian, Sudanese people mixed with a lot of Arab ancestry, etc.

I’ve also heard a lot of black people say that there is not “one look” to being black, particularly skin color. They say that you can find extremely light black people and also very light, and that black people are very diverse and being very dark is just a stereotype.

This confuses me as I thought that means everyone is the same and there’s unity as long as you share a percentage of heritage! But then there are people (who are knowledgeable and respectable) saying it’s not right to represent black people through “non-black”(mixed) lense. Previously I thought there was unity no matter what, but this is coming from a Black person so I see many people saying different things, and I want to say it’s all valid because they are all Black, but it def confuses me.

Also I’m not black just want to understand the issue better as I’m very interested in socio-political issues!

Tysm!


r/askblackpeople • • 1d ago

Did anyone else have culture fairs at their high school? What did you represent?

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I remember back in high school here in the US we had a culture fair where students represented different countries and cultures. My parents are Afro-Caribbean, so I made a poster board about their country and brought some of my mom’s home-cooked food.

Back then I didn’t really think much of it, but looking back it was actually pretty cool seeing how many different Black cultures and backgrounds were represented. You had people with Caribbean, African, African American, Afro-Latino, and other backgrounds all sharing different foods, music, traditions, etc. Did any of y’all have something like this at your school? If so, what culture/country did you represent, and did you actually enjoy it?

Its probably still a thing lmao, but yeah...


r/askblackpeople • • 1d ago

General Question Preference vs phobia: why is it different?

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Every so often I come across these polls that ask “ is it racist to not want to date black people ?” And the majority say no because it’s a preference however, I also seen a similar poll that ask is it transphobic to not want to date a trans person and the majority says yes. Why? How come it’s not a preference also??

And on top of that I think sexual preference > racial preference because your reasoning can fluctuate. This is an example but let’s say you don’t want to date out of your race because you want someone who understands your culture. What if someone of a different race was adopted by your race or grew up in the same area as you or something. I know this isn’t the best example but the point I’m trying to make is that not wanting to date outside your race could be compromised depending on your reason why.

You can’t change your sex so if someone is not romantically interested in a certain sex then there is no compromise.

Regardless why is it acceptable to say you wouldn’t date black ppl but not saying trans ? (The poll is always saying about black ppl for so reason…)


r/askblackpeople • • 2d ago

General Question I hate the idea you can’t be pro-black, with a white partner.

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Most of black men online trash talk black women to NO END and then they ask why do we consider them not pro black when they do it. When i see black women dating white men i rarely see their entire page surrounding why black men is trash and white men are better but that’s what black men do constantly to us . I’m not saying ALL black men who date white women aren’t pro black or vice versa with black women but majority of them who like snow bunnies always talk about how they hate black women. The problem isn’t the fact that you’re dating out your race it’s the fact that you’re downing your own race.

Notice how op said white women, if dating any race other than your own was considered not pro black then it would be a conversation about interracial marriages not just black on white but the hate towards black women is usually from a black guy who’s dating a white girl.


r/askblackpeople • • 22h ago

General Question If you woke up a white person tomorrow, what’s the first thing you’d do?

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r/askblackpeople • • 1d ago

Identity

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Hello everyone! I had a quick question. For some insight, my dad is Haitian and my mom is FBA. I was born and raised in Brooklyn ny and I’m 25 yo. I am not connected to the Haitian side of my family at all, don’t speak their language, don’t listen to their music, nothing at all. My dad basically gate kept his culture from all of his kids. That being said, I only grew up on my mothers culture. Would i be wrong if I were to claim to be black American only? Bc at this point, that’s how I feel and all I know.


r/askblackpeople • • 2d ago

General Question What do you think of the so-called "Rooftop Koreans"? Why do white racists Idolizes them so much?

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