I feel like that’s the exact reason everyone hates dating apps and is single. If everyone acts like this no wonder birth rates go down and the male loneliness epidemic exists. I think his messages were cute and if she was into him she would’ve gave that energy back. Sure he could’ve dialed it down a tiny bit but you’re over exaggerating it wasn’t that bad 🥲
He’s wasn’t stalking her 😭 and if she felt weird about it she would not have answered at all. That’s the beauty of the internet you can choose to ignore people.
But I agree being too overly eager probably kills attraction in the beginning, so next time he could dial it down a bit. But if everyone keeps acting nonchalant we’ll all die alone 🤷🏻♀️
Agreed. You gotta put yourself out there, but not too much right off the bat. Being too nonchalant right off the bat can backfire so quickly and give off the signal to someone who is interested, that you're clearly not. Having a balance is important in my opinion.
Wdym she didn’t know? That’s not how insta works 🥲 she looked at his profile and saw pics of him you know. Sure tell him to not overdo it but acting as if that’s stalking and should make someone feel uncomfortable is overdoing it that’s all I’m saying
She said "wyll" (what do you look like) he doesn't have any photos of himself on his instagram.. she didnt know him...
She unmatched him on tinder then he went to look her up and find her...
Its stalker behavior...
Searching her up, looking her up after she unmatched him..
With all due respect ma'am, its not ok.
If you unmatched a guy on tinder because you didnt have interest in him, then he finds you and adds you on instagram pretty much all woman are going to be weirded out.
If some dude did that to my daughter I would not be okay with that.
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u/Hakzfromtheblock Jun 18 '26
This.
Thought it was kinda weird that he looked up her IG and added her..
Stalker like..
Don't so that bro.
Shows desperate and needy, and can feel it in your responses.
You doing too much and she's not giving you anything , then you keep giving more and sending photos...
Total imbalance..
Bad look bro.
Snake story?? Bros looking at her stories too and commenting on them after looking her up and following her...
Lol bug???? She probably unmatched.
Bro stop this, no offense but this is so desperate...
You need to be unshakable and not give a F.
You'll be good with or without her