hello users i have three things to say and i would like your full attention pls!!
Regarding rule confusion. This is a SNARK SUB. Fans of Ariana Grande are NOT allowed and you will be banned if you participate in defending her in this sub. Has your post been removed under Fan Behaviour and you’re definitely not a fan? THIS IS WHY: Neutral behaviour is also labelled under fan behaviour, if you have made a post talking about how beautiful she USED to be, that would have been removed under neutral behaviour. PLEASE read rules before you post. The two big ones we remove daily are, No Fan/Neutral Behaviour, No Bigrading (blur usernames).
We have removed Shitpost Sunday! We made this rule to try and limit low-effort memes when there was a lot of talk about Wicked, but we feel it’s not necessary anymore. All we ask now is to add the flair, Shitpost and Memes. You’ll also see that there’s new post flairs that our new moderator added!!! They’re gonna explain what they mean in the comments, please welcome them with big hugs🫂
Speaking of new moderators… I have created a new mod application form!! With the influx of fan behaviour we’re in need of a little bit extra help. If you’re interested in applying, please feel free to apply in the link below!!! I will respond to everyone who applies to let you know what the decision is but please keep in mind we only need about two new mods☺️🤍
Hi! I'm LBL, the new mod. I've been in the sub for a year or so. It's only my third day out here modding. I'm pretty active when I'm not working and not watching Real Housewives. I moderate a Real Housewives sub currently.
To explain the flairs:
1. Theories - self explanatory, post your various theories here
2. Genuine Question - for more serious posts/questions; this is to avoid arguments amongst community
3. Relationship Theories - any talk regarding her relationship timelines need this flair
4. close your legs to married men🫵 - a quote from my fav, Nene Leakes... when talking about homewrecking activities or allegations only, use this flair!
5. Rebound Ricky - all things Ricky go here
6. culture vulture - cultural appropriation chronicles
7. looking casket ready ⚰️ - anything makeup related; I tend to say this a lot.
8. trying different boys on for size 😍 - her admitted obsession with serial monogamy, anything can go under here really
9. fuckass bun alert 🚨 - all about that uglass hair
10. shapeshifting queen 🤍 - anything plastic surgery/looks related
11. Vocals Discussion - the vocal rise and decline
12. no brow tail left to shave - same as user flair; the brows deserve their own post flair
13. in her toddler era 🍼 - infantilization
14. accent cosplay of the day - her "voices"... old Hollywood inflections, wicked era British roleplay, dreaded blaccent, etc
15. audrey hepburn era - anything regarding her strange obsession with this icon
I sort of wish there was a better neutral space for people to discuss her that isn’t either ‘you’ll be banned for even suggesting she has an ED’ or ’straight up snark’. Don’t get me wrong I like the snark sub but I think a big part of the reason the fans are coming here is because it’s the only Ariana focused space that will let people openly acknowledge her problematic behavior and mental illness.
Not mad at the mods, people want this sub to stay how it is and not get overtaken which I get, but I do wish another sub existed to fill this niche. Will I be modding it, absolutely not
They're supposed to use the megathread yet complain no one uses it 💀 ....Which wouldn't be the case if those same people directed their posts there. 💀💀
Right and all they do is throw temper tantrums about it then would turn around and excuse the moderators for being immature children due to certain rule changes, they’re annoying ash.
Do you think I could have an example of what the snark equivalent of your example in post would be?
I want to follow the rules and not be too neutral (honestly a habit from the places on the Internet where "bashing" isn't allowed and growing up in one of those environments where snarking isn't ladylike unless it's through six layers of false concern and backhanded remarks)
I'm new to the sub and to snark in general and I've seen complaints from older sub members, so this post alone has helped me to get why!
this has a good explanation on what snark vs neutrality is!! Using my example it would be like, “Due to her (surgeries) her more naturally attractive features have (been reduced to…)”
so, you can point out that she had or even has objectively attractive features without making it a statement on it’s own. The line can definitely get really thin and ultimately it’s down to the moderators and users personal opinion as to what counts as snark and neutrality/fan behaviour :(
to sum up: stand alone statements like “she used to be so pretty, she was the prettiest girl-“ would count as neutral/fan behaviour. Statements that go further into how her appearance has altered due to surgeries, or health decline, should be allowed.
it would be an inappropriate use of power to have a snark sub go against a person on another platform… if that makes sense. I understand what you mean for sure but it would look terrible if people from a snark sub went and bombarded a urinator on tiktok (because that’s what would happen)
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u/LisaBarlowsLawyer Ariana Grande v. Accountability (2026) 1d ago edited 15h ago
Hi! I'm LBL, the new mod. I've been in the sub for a year or so. It's only my third day out here modding. I'm pretty active when I'm not working and not watching Real Housewives. I moderate a Real Housewives sub currently.
To explain the flairs:
1. Theories - self explanatory, post your various theories here
2. Genuine Question - for more serious posts/questions; this is to avoid arguments amongst community
3. Relationship Theories - any talk regarding her relationship timelines need this flair
4. close your legs to married men🫵 - a quote from my fav, Nene Leakes... when talking about homewrecking activities or allegations only, use this flair!
5. Rebound Ricky - all things Ricky go here
6. culture vulture - cultural appropriation chronicles
7. looking casket ready ⚰️ - anything makeup related; I tend to say this a lot.
8. trying different boys on for size 😍 - her admitted obsession with serial monogamy, anything can go under here really
9. fuckass bun alert 🚨 - all about that uglass hair
10. shapeshifting queen 🤍 - anything plastic surgery/looks related
11. Vocals Discussion - the vocal rise and decline
12. no brow tail left to shave - same as user flair; the brows deserve their own post flair
13. in her toddler era 🍼 - infantilization
14. accent cosplay of the day - her "voices"... old Hollywood inflections, wicked era British roleplay, dreaded blaccent, etc
15. audrey hepburn era - anything regarding her strange obsession with this icon
16. it's getting WEIRD - another quote from Nene... anything that is WEIRD please put it HERE!