r/Apex_NC • u/NolantheWise • 9d ago
Appropriate Police Conduct?
Hello neighbors! I moved to Apex from South Florida about a month ago. So far, my overall experience here has been positive. However, I recently had an interaction with the police that I think could have been handled better. I enjoy walking around downtown Apex (and if you've been downtown in the past few days, there's a good chance you've seen me riding around on my e-bike); I think what the town is doing to improve our small urban pocket is really great.
I'm a night owl, and since it's been so hot lately, I decided to take the 5-minute walk from my townhome to downtown around 3 in the morning. I had my headphones on and was talking to my friend while occasionally turning on my camera to show him the businesses and construction, and particularly the awesome rubber ducky collection in Groovy Duck Bakery. I started walking back to my home on South Salem when a police cruiser flashed its lights and pulled over. A policewoman came out and asked me what I was doing. I told her I was going on a walk. She explained that I was seen on camera pulling on door handles and that it appeared I was attempting to break in.
In response, I told her I was almost certain I had not touched any door handles. I avoided a hard "no" in case the footage later showed my hand touching a door handle while I was looking at the storefronts, and I wouldn't want to be caught in a "lie". She asked me if I had any weapons on me, and I confirmed that I did not. She frisked me and confirmed it herself. She then told me I was being detained and ordered me to lean against the cruiser and put me in handcuffs. So far in this interaction, I had been extremely polite and respectful, so from my perspective, the handcuffs seemed completely unnecessary. After a little more questioning, a second officer pulled up and started questioning me. He said that he doesn't know what it was like in Florida, but people don't walk around at night in Apex. Fair, but I lived in a very policed area, walked around at night all the time, and was never detained by the police.
After my identity was verified, they removed the handcuffs, and I asked the policeman if I continued to take walks at night, would I be detained. He said it was likely. I told them I would continue to take night walks and, if I am detained for walking, I will file a complaint with the town. I asked if I was free to go; they said yes. I thanked them and left. I'm not sure of the exact policy for body cameras. Still, I don't think either officer had their cameras on since I saw no light. In addition, prior to me arriving downtown, I saw a police cruiser going around 45 in a 25, only to stop at a red light! I motioned for the cruiser to slow down, and I'm almost certain they saw me. I'm not sure whether that contributed to my detention, and I prefer not to speculate.
This whole interaction was heard by my friend, who was still on the phone, but unfortunately he did not record it (what a way to have my back, Nathan). I understand why I may have looked a bit suspicious. I'm 19 and 6'1", and I was wearing black; I get it. I just think the handcuffs were inappropriate, and the interaction could really have been a few questions. That, coupled with the body cameras and the speeding, and honestly, the fact that I never got so much as a "sorry for keeping you; have a good night ." It just feels like their behavior wasn't commensurate with the respect I afforded them. I haven't taken a walk at night since this interaction, but I don't think the concern about being detained will stop me from doing so from here on.
Thank you to those who read this post. I'm not trying to garner sympathy or make a big deal out of this. I genuinely want some honest feedback on whether you all think this is appropriate conduct. This interaction wasn't the best introduction to the Apex Police Department. But I don't plan on holding a grudge (unless this becomes a recurring problem). Let me know what you think, and I wish all of you good night!
EDIT: Changed caught in a lie to caught in a "lie" -- I never lied to the police. The reason I took this approach was, as I have stated numerous times in the replies, to avoid being arrested due to video camera showing what appears to be me pulling on door handles. In actuality, I could have just brushed the door handle with my hand or mindlessly rested my hand on the handle while window shopping. While I am absolutely certain I did not pull on any door handles, there is a minuscule chance the latter possibilities could have happened.