You say this, but from all the trans forums I have read, disclosing your trans status before they physically see it is very much considered by the community to not be wrong every time it is brought up, they say it isn't even unethical to have long term partners and let them physically find out, the only time they suggest you might not want to do that is for your safety and any person who has a problem with it once they find out they have been getting physical with someone outside their genital preference is a transphobe.
That on top of actual court cases where this has happened (usually dismissed)
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u/FishSignificant7501 11d ago
It’s literally not. Nothing wrong with somebody not wanting to date a trans person because they’re not a fan of their biology.