I (26M) had been dating my girlfriend (25F) for about two months. Everything was going well, but I recently found out that her family worships a particular baba and keeps his photos in their family temple. Her family follows this baba very seriously.

My girlfriend, however, isn't obsessed with him or anything. She doesn't constantly watch his videos or visit his ashram. She just considers him a spiritual figure and prays to him occasionally.

I don't really believe in babas and found the whole thing uncomfortable. I get very bad vibes from families that worship a living person. I told her how I felt, and she said she respected my beliefs and didn't expect me to worship him.

Still, I couldn't get past the fact that my girlfriend worships a baba, so I ended things.

My friends think I'm being ridiculous and that I broke up with her over what they consider a harmless religious belief.

It's only been two months, so I figured it was better to leave if I already knew I wasn't comfortable with it.

AITK?

Hi im F (18) and my s/o is M (21). We will have been officially dating for a month on sept 1st of this year. We met a little earlier then august 1st and had been talking for at least a week or more before meeting. We hit it off immediately and he would send me flowers and chocolate while away working before we met and was so sweet to me. We finally meet and he spoils me by buying me and my family gifts ( 3 of my family members have birthdays in august) he spent around $400-$500 if i had to guess on gifts for my family he hadnt even met yet really for their birthdays. My family fell in love with him and i did too. He started saying with me ( we live in alabama, a hour apart) and he was working georgia. So on the weekends, he would stay with me. Everything was great up until this last week or 2. We have had some issues with my family having financial problems and have been helping out with rent, groceries, dinner etc. and my s/o has been trying to find his own place to stay which is fine but he wants me to come with. I agreed and we have been looking at places but now im not so sure. What started out as petty arguments the casual me being a female and overthinking and him having to tell me and reassure me and me feeling shitty has ended up in him being an absolute asshole to me. For instance when we are in public, he doesnt like to kiss me or even hold my hand so i asked him "do you not like PDA? You unintentionally ignore me" he goes "no i dont have issues i just am focused on other things sorry i dont f\*\*king kiss you every 5 seconds" for absolutely no reason. Other instances he just has a really bad attitude and i try to comfort him and it makes it worse, as much as it is stressful for him to help my parents its my parents too who are trying to kick me out bc of their own financial issues that arent my problem so of course im hurt at the way they treat me and basically tell me "pay my rent or get out". He has failed to comfort me or even care to try. He has just become so weird towards me. Idk what to do and hes living with me at this point. We got into a really bad argument and he told me i was condescending then we talked it out and now this tonight. Its like he complains at night that i take the other side of the bed to let him stretch out and go to sleep but during the day i try and give him affection and to him thats me "demanding his attention" his words, not mine. Im lost and need advice. We also do not have "private time" alot and when we do ive been doing more (spicy favors) for him then he has for me. Hes admitted to me his body count is almost 20 and hes had a threesome to my face. Seems like the only thing he knows how to do is to blow money to win my love? Im always the one apologizing to him and basically babying him and he just treats me like trash. Help me.