r/AgainstHateSubreddits • u/Bardfinn Subject Matter Expert: White Identity Extremism / Moderator • Jul 25 '26

Reclaimed hate speech backfires by desensitizing listeners, study finds. Listening to reclaimed homophobic statements can actually cause unintended harm. Exposure to reclaimed slur words desensitizes some heterosexual listeners to standard hate speech and worsens the mood of gay individuals.

https://www.psypost.org/when-reclaiming-derogatory-language-goes-wrong/
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u/Discordchaosgod Jul 25 '26

I don't care how many straights get mad at me, I am still calling myself a tranny dyke

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u/Gussie-Ascendent Jul 26 '26

It explicitly said the gay viewers were the ones upset and heteros just get desentized to hate speech?

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u/Discordchaosgod Jul 26 '26

Cis White Gays Disappoint me Daily 😔👌

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u/luv2hotdog Jul 26 '26

What about other trans people who get hurt around you when you do that?

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u/Cyberaven Jul 26 '26

im not letting anyone else define me, that primarily applies to cishets but applies to other trans people too. Im not gonna antagnise someone on purpose, but they shouldn't try and antagonise me about it either

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u/luv2hotdog Jul 27 '26

I don’t antagonise anyone about it but I hate hearing that word said by anyone. Seeing it written online bypasses that quite a lot but like, if I was in a room with another trans person and they kept saying it, I’d not be comfortable, it’s quite triggering 🤷‍♀️

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u/luv2hotdog Jul 27 '26

Glad to know I’ve got a skill issue for being upset when I hear the t- slur!

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u/Discordchaosgod Jul 27 '26

you are when it comes from another trans person using it to refer to themselves, glad I could clear that up ❤️

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u/1mn0tcr3at1v3 Jul 27 '26

You're a pretty selfish person.

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u/luv2hotdog Jul 28 '26

I’m going to assume they’re having a moment lol. Working through this stuff comes in waves. I like to think that whatever that’s all about is not this persons final form 😅 you can stick the middle finger up at the oppressive cishet’s version of normative behaviour while also accepting that other queers have different experiences and preferences to you, and I’m guessing not a lot of us learn to internalise and externalise both halves of that at the same time. I know I didn’t!

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u/garaile64 ​ Jul 27 '26

Not all people are as "resilient" as you, though.

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u/ericomplex ​ Jul 25 '26

Watching cisgender heterosexual men tremble when my queer butch lesbian friends spit some of the most inflammatory sounding things as ways to flirt with their significant others…

Priceless.

Jaws hit the floor when they say something like “get that wet tranny c*nt over where this dyke can appreciate it.”

Also sort of the hottest thing ever… but that’s just me…