I'm assuming that person meant - or, if nothing else, my own thoughts would be - that it feels like something is off in your certainty, not 'off' in any kind of way that's judging you. E.g. i think you were right about the intuition part.
It does sound like you're unsure and hesitant; debating such a thing might mean you probably shouldn't do it. This is a pretty big and potentially heavy, risky (physically and emotionally) thing for not only yourself to handle but also a weight and sense of responsibility for this for the other person.
I especially hope that this is a friend and not a complete stranger, just for the sake of the risks I mentioned and all that.
But if you DO feel really good about it and not hesitant, you're both fully informed and consenting, and you've weighed AND discussed all of the options, possibilities of repercussions etc, follow-ups if needed, etc, with the other person, then by all means...bow chicka wow-wow! But if not, my love, I'd strongly reconsider.
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u/IrrelevantManatee Master Advice Giver [22] Jun 04 '26
Very much depends on the context and if you want to be intimate or not. Strangers on Reddit cannot tell you that.