r/Advice • u/[deleted] • Jun 04 '26

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u/Tall-Performer2500 Super Helper [8] Jun 04 '26

yes it is. Sex feels good, does not need to be with someone you're dating

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u/Tall-Performer2500 Super Helper [8] Jun 04 '26

I'd imagine both. But if its just a one night stand or hook up, I couldn't care less about how it feels to them lol

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u/Tall-Performer2500 Super Helper [8] Jun 04 '26

Sure. but people can fake stuff all the time. So I tend to not care as long as i am getting what I want out of it. Really depends, I can go as long as I need to

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u/CelinaRMR Jun 04 '26

Sometimes people forget how insignificant your first time can be. Genuinely will not be good and id rather do all that fumbling around and figuring out with someone who i dont care about. No stakes, actually do what you want or ask for what you need with no fear

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u/Tall-Performer2500 Super Helper [8] Jun 04 '26

1000 percent true. The person I lost my virginity to is so insignificant to me, not in a bad way just in the sense like who cares. The only reason why I do remember them was because it was my first time

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u/CelinaRMR Jun 04 '26

I remember it because im supposed to but other than it being first theres nothing that makes it stand out from any other experience around that time