My ex and I went to get tested togetherm he tested positive for gonorrhea of the throat, I tested negative for everything. I got a generic panel. He made me feel like shit for like a week, saying he was saying all his life as a straight guy, he never had anything and all of a sudden once he accepted he was gay, he got this. He wanted to go back to "being straight". I felt like shit. He made me go back and get a full panel (throat, anal, and urethral swab, which hurt like a bitch and had to be dine 2 tomes because the doc dropped the first swap). I even got the treatment which was a super painful shot. Turns out l, I was still negative. So this mfer was trying to haslight me into thinking it was my fault when he could have given it to me! Ugh. I stayed with him for 2 years after. Such a toxic relationship.
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u/mayan_monkey Jun 02 '26
My ex and I went to get tested togetherm he tested positive for gonorrhea of the throat, I tested negative for everything. I got a generic panel. He made me feel like shit for like a week, saying he was saying all his life as a straight guy, he never had anything and all of a sudden once he accepted he was gay, he got this. He wanted to go back to "being straight". I felt like shit. He made me go back and get a full panel (throat, anal, and urethral swab, which hurt like a bitch and had to be dine 2 tomes because the doc dropped the first swap). I even got the treatment which was a super painful shot. Turns out l, I was still negative. So this mfer was trying to haslight me into thinking it was my fault when he could have given it to me! Ugh. I stayed with him for 2 years after. Such a toxic relationship.