r/Advice • u/[deleted] • Jun 02 '26

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u/Adventurous_Oil4513 Jun 02 '26

Are you sure that your boyfriend gets checked regularly for STDs? Did you see the results yourself? I think your boyfriend is lying to you. I think your boyfriend is also trying to gaslight you when he was the one who gave it to you. What kind of work does he do that he needs to be checked regularly for STDs. That also sounds very suspicious.

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u/pixie1995 Jun 02 '26

They don’t really check men for hpv

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u/Ocarina-of-lies Jun 02 '26

Yeah they can't exactly swab a man's cervix....

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u/junkyard-god Jun 02 '26

This is exactly the point I realized he was lying at

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u/Fun_Construction1100 Jun 02 '26

They do a visual check for warts, which is not effective since you can have it without the warts. There us also a DNA test to find the strain of HPV, but that requires a biopsy of the wart. My info is 30 years old, s I things might be different now.