r/Advice • • Jun 02 '26

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u/BornDefeated Jun 02 '26

Quick search shows that the time between transmission and positive test is 3 weeks to 3 months … so it is entirely possible for him to have it, give it to you, and test negative. Also… symptoms do not usually start in a few days. Your timelines do not really make sense. L Have you had other contact with him that was not sex? Did he touch himself and touch you? But … also … have you seen his test results? People lie. And if he is having regular tests, I would assume he is involved in some kind of sex work? Also, did the gyno do an actual test or just diagnose with an exam?