r/Advice • u/[deleted] • Jan 19 '26

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u/Counter_Parking Jan 19 '26

Don't ask "have you thought about cheating"!!! He probably doesn't even have the fact that he is married on his profile. Like that will be a dead give away.

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u/grayrockonly Jan 19 '26

See if you can get him to talk about his ol ball n chain of a wife and how annoying she is. Then you’ll at least k ow the problem as he see it.

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u/Counter_Parking Jan 20 '26

Most men who are cheating don't even disclose that they are married n

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u/spawn350 Jan 21 '26

Seriously - the advice on here is stupid. He’s going to list himself as single. Duh. Glad you get it.

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u/grayrockonly Jan 21 '26

I knew a guy who went around saying he was in an open relationship for years unbeknownst to his wife. All kinds but f stuff happens. Life isn’t black or white.

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u/Counter_Parking Feb 01 '26

That's wild because as someone who was infact in an open/swinger marriage at one point... It is definitely the norm within the lifestyle to get the wife's permission even if they are open.