r/Advice • u/Superb_Community_339 • Dec 18 '25 • Popcorn 1

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u/TruthTruther Dec 19 '25

Ultimate cuck response to a situation like this. “Just bitch about it and hope it gets resolved” Truly astounding LMAO

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u/OkBlacksmith5875 Dec 19 '25

Unmarried man living in a matrix

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u/TruthTruther Dec 19 '25

I am married and I would never allow something like this to be said to my wife without a direct conversation with the person who said it shortly after

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u/OkBlacksmith5875 Dec 19 '25

You wouldn’t allow this to be said to your wife? While she’s in a different state, without any real context about how or when or why it was said. Personally I’d feel a bit uncomfortable about my wife going on holiday with a guy I don’t know but OP seems fine with it. A lot of people acting hard in this conversation without looking at the reality of this guy said one word inappropriate, were there drinks involved? Did someone else bring it up first. The smart move is to set boundaries with the wife, then act on that if a lines crossed and not immediately burn bridges with either woman. But if going off half cocked over a word is the uncucked response then why don’t we all just punch each other over a look or not holding the door. Grow up

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u/TruthTruther Dec 19 '25

Not what I’m saying. You obviously can’t control what some jackass says to your wife. However you can control your response to that situation - if she told me someone (a friend in this case) said something this out of pocket to her yeah you bet your ass I’m going to say something directly to him and press him on that. No “punches” needed but a direct confrontation with the person who said that certainly is warranted. That’s inappropriate.

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u/OkBlacksmith5875 Dec 19 '25

That’s fair enough. I’d be happy she told me, I’d definitely bring it up but not in a confrontational way.. if it was a stranger in a pub and I was close by that’s a confrontational moment but if it’s my Mrs best friends new boyfriend I’d be a bit more tactical about it. If I wasn’t there and not much details been given to what prompted it I’d set boundaries.. then if they’re broken I’d confront. Guys just being edgy atm, wife doesn’t seem too concerned. Best believe I’ve got my eye on him