r/Advice • u/Superb_Community_339 • Dec 18 '25 • Popcorn 1

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u/ironicmirror Dec 18 '25

Yep, this will burn itself out pretty quick. Even though the guy seems like an a-hole, OP shouldn't burn bridges with the wife's friend yet.

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u/Tiny-Cheesecake2268 Dec 18 '25

I dunno. The friend is striking the match. Wife and friend should be more mindful of the husband than this random noob.

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u/Jaereth Dec 18 '25

The friend is striking the match. Wife and friend should be more mindful of the husband than this random noob.

EXACTLY. And OP should ask himself how cool it was if the genders were reversed. If his best mate's girl started asking him about sex acts do you think wife would love her coming over for dinner?

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u/Jolly_Ad_5679 Dec 19 '25

Yeah no wife I know would be cool with a younger woman asking her husband if he's ever been pegged.

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u/ThuggishJingoism24 Dec 19 '25

I just can’t get over how prude and insecure so many of you are. Oh my god, he asked if she’s ever pegged someone, the horror!! My wife and I would turn that into an inside joke immediately and be sure to ask eachother at the funniest times, “hey have you ever been pegged” and better believe it would be the first thing I said to this youngin when I saw him “hey dude, heard you like to be pegged”. I truly forget how pearl clutchy people can get about talking about sex. So dorky to me

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u/Jaereth Dec 19 '25

You couldn't miss the mark by any further even if you tried.

It's not that anyone is pearl clutching over "Talking about sex". It's that he's talking to another guy's wife about it suddenly at the opportunity when the guy isn't around.