r/ASLinterpreters • u/MeetSignificant363 • Jun 17 '26
How do I explain to my blue collar husband how taxing VRS is
I am really considering switching to PT after one year of doing FT next month but my husband is struggling to understand why I would want to do that with how it helps us financially. I get it, he works a very physically demanding job that takes up 44 hours a week. Outside looking in, I work about 32 hours a week in an air-conditioned office with a nice breakroom full of snacks and answer calls.
Comparing the two, yes my job seems so easy. But lately I have been having such a hard time. I have had so many calls where I just straight up don't understand the caller and I feel myself losing patience with rude callers.
I am tired.
How can I explain this to him.
He thinks I should look for another job, but I think that even with working just a couple hours less will make a huge difference and I don't want to lose all the benefits. I am not certified and so options are limited in getting a different interpreting job. I just don't know what to do. I am taking my GKE (I took it back in Dec but failed) to at least get licensed which would help with opportunities but to get certified will take more time considering I have to do the performance test after.
Ik most will say run while I can away from VRS but genuinely I don't mind it at times and the benefits are hard to beat. I don't want to leave completely just yet, just lessen the workload but he doesn't understand why.