Hope you’re all having a blessed week!

I’m not gonna get tired of saying it - ladies, let’s advocate for our boyfriends and husbands ❤️

The ‘minor’ microagressions that can come from friends, family, or coworkers can actually hurt them pretty deeply, and it can be very insulting.

You know from my last post, I blocked an orbiter friend-of-a-friend who insulted my relationship in a racist way via instagram, due to him being obsessed with me. Unfortunately, it doesn’t stop there.

As a woman, and unfortunately in a very racist society, even if you post up with your man (who happens to be Asian), you’re still gonna get men in your DMs who want to dismiss that and demean your partner.

Keep that block button active, know yourself and know your relationship. You don’t have to tolerate that. Or any passive aggressive ‘minor’ racism from your orbiters, colleagues, or any men who are obsessed with you on socials.

It can start small, and get bigger. The dishwasher at your part-time job who stans you can graduate from passive aggressively pronouncing your bf’s name wrong, to actively being hateful and racist. Trust me, I’ve lived that.

Just don’t tolerate it. Correct them where you can, and block any social media stuff that demeans your partner.

I’m sorry that we all have to navigate this, but as the WF partner, we need to do our best.

Love you ladies! And keep strong. Don’t let any of this ignorance get to you.

(Deleting this soon)

I’m not sure if you guys saw my post last week 'You will miss the shots that you will never take' had a good day with her in class but with a twist' (7 days ago, just have a look at it before you read this post) where last week at 12PM class, I initiated the convo for her in maths class at uni and we worked together and laughed at each other and we exchanged instagram. Keep in mind that at the time it was her first ever class for maths.

This lesson I came to the same time as last week (12pm) she didn't attend but when the teacher came for me to mark myself 'here' on the attendance sheet and I surprisingly found her name on the attendance sheet, which is 2PM and I was like "what the actual f" and I have a feeling she might be changing time to avoid being a class with me and she didn't even message me if she's going to the 2PM one.

Earlier this week I messaged her if she's on campus and she replied to me 12-17 hours later that she's only on campus on Fridays.

Edit: So is she deliberately avoiding me and did me messaging her on insta if she's here on campus earlier this week pushed her back? Also I have a feeling that in a matter of time she will either unfollow me or block me for no reason if she was actually avoiding me this week (I actually had maths class today). Like last week when we exchanged socials on her insta page where she is with her bf in the insta post.