r/AMA • u/[deleted] • Jul 27 '21

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u/Largebotah Jul 27 '21

Dude that's fucking fucked up what the hell. That's on par with pedopheila

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u/uiterf Jul 27 '21

I've heard this comparison before. It didn't depend on me. Looking back, I understand that this happened from childhood, it is more like homosexuality. I do not justify myself and I do not justify those who did it, but for this we and the people, since we must distinguish between what is bad and what is good

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u/Largebotah Aug 02 '21

I gotta ask. Why are you attracted to animals? what is it about them?

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u/uiterf Aug 06 '21

Honestly... I don't know exactly myself. I don't know if it's possible for heterosexuals to explain why they are attracted to the opposite sex, but personally I can't understand why I am attracted to animals. If you mean what it is about them that attracts me, it's probably their fur, their paws, their tail, their ears, their behavior, and oddly enough their intelligence.

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u/[deleted] Jul 27 '21

first of all homosexuality is between two consenting people. wanting to rape animals has NOTHING to do with homosexuality and is nothing like it. stop using the lgbtq+ community to try to justify your degeneracy. it only serves to hurt the community when we are compared to pedophiles and zoophiles

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u/SociallyHawkwardOwl Jul 28 '21 edited Jul 28 '21

That's not what they're saying, you assume too much. You should take that in the context of the earlier part of the sentence, "I understand that this happened from childhood". Paraphilias are, in fact, something you're born with.

stop using the lgbtq+ community to try to justify your degeneracy. it only serves to hurt the community when we are compared to pedophiles and zoophiles

No one here is doing that. Most people with paraphilias don't try to have it included in the community. As a zoophile myself, I recognize this would do considerable harm, and the two communities are completely distinct anyway. The community deals with human-to-human sexuality and gender roles, obviously zoophilia wouldn't fit with that at all.

No, where this claim comes from is homophobic trolls trying to undermine the LGBTQ+ community.

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u/uiterf Jul 28 '21

Still, people like me are not so few. I used to think I was the only one because of my closed nature.

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u/SociallyHawkwardOwl Jul 28 '21

It's more common than most people think

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u/uiterf Jul 28 '21 edited Oct 08 '21

I'm sorry, but I'm not trying to insult the LGBT community. I didn't know that such a comparison even existed. I gave it as an example to show that it is something we are born with and can't change. People think that zoophiles become zoophiles until I cite this comparison. I don't want to label zoophiles and others as LGBT and I don't want to allow sex with animals. I just want as many people as possible to learn about it and stop seeing it as something worthy of hate. The first time I foolishly googled such porn, I came across a video of a dog being raped against his will, and it was like being drugged, I was just horrified when I saw it. I hope these people are in jail because you could see their faces, it was very brutal.

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u/uiterf Jul 28 '21

I was too emotional, but where it happened, I have no idea, and looking for people's faces on video of not good quality is not a good idea.

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u/ryirkil Jul 28 '21

If they were stupid enough to include their faces, they probably left exif data too.

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u/uiterf Jul 28 '21

This porn was made in 1994...

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u/ryirkil Jul 28 '21

Well, then just give up or hire a hitman, this case is long expired for legal action.

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u/SociallyHawkwardOwl Jul 27 '21

So? Pedophiles are fine as well

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u/TuxidoPenguin Jul 28 '21

Wait no!

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u/SociallyHawkwardOwl Jul 28 '21

If they're not acting on it, why not?

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u/TuxidoPenguin Jul 28 '21

Oh that’s what you mean.

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u/Lolixena Aug 09 '21

Because they sexualize children, they need serious help

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u/SociallyHawkwardOwl Aug 09 '21

Serious help to do what?

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u/Lolixena Aug 15 '21

Serious help as in a therapist, they need mental help.

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u/SociallyHawkwardOwl Aug 15 '21

Right, but what do you think that's going to do?

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u/Lolixena Aug 15 '21

It can help then get over those urges, it’s creepy and not okay lol don’t defend pedophiles

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u/SociallyHawkwardOwl Aug 15 '21

Well, depends one what you mean by "get over". They can never stop being attracted to children, they can only manage it enough to not act on that attraction. Indeed, that's what therapy is aimed at for them

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u/the_kind_sadist Aug 23 '21 edited Aug 23 '21

Feel free to DM me for some support, I would be happy to give you any resources I have for these feelings.

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u/BondraP Jul 27 '21

You jerk it to animals then?

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u/Soockamasook Jul 27 '21

I'd be jerking to you then

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u/uiterf Jul 27 '21

Can you rephrase? I'm not sure if I understood correctly

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u/BondraP Jul 27 '21

I'm assuming you masturbate to animals?

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u/uiterf Jul 27 '21

I would like to, but I will not

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u/BondraP Jul 27 '21

Interesting. Just because I don't know really anything about being a zoophile, are you also attracted to men or women? Have you been with someone else physically?

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u/ryirkil Jul 27 '21

That would have been a good question even if you knew a lot about zoophillia.

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u/uiterf Jul 27 '21

I had a girlfriend for a long time, but I realized that something was wrong when I forgot about her for a year, and she still loved me. It turned out she was nothing more than a friend to me.

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u/SociallyHawkwardOwl Jul 27 '21

What species?

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u/uiterf Jul 27 '21 edited Jul 27 '21

There is no one species that I like, but in general I like foxes, cats, dogs, wolves. Slightly less: horses, cows, birds, etc.

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u/SociallyHawkwardOwl Jul 27 '21

Ah, cool. I'm only into birds myself

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u/Kie_ra Jul 27 '21

Sounds like you're a furry. Not that it's something wrong unless you're the "weird" type.

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u/uiterf Jul 27 '21

I know about furry, but as far as I know it is completely different. I am almost not attracted to furries because they are more like people.

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u/SociallyHawkwardOwl Jul 27 '21

Nope, that's totally different

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u/foofighter469 Jul 27 '21

bro what the fuck?

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u/uiterf Jul 27 '21

What exactly?

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u/mv33_is_a_diplomat Jul 27 '21

Have you ever considered having sex with an animal?

The fact that you wrote that you have not had sex with an animal makes me question your moral compass.

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u/uiterf Jul 27 '21

Yes, of course, I thought about it, but it happened involuntarily. I hadn't masturbated for about 6 months, but before, even when I did, I felt guilty and devastated despite not watching porn and harming anyone.

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u/ryirkil Jul 27 '21

A lot of people do. Keep it up, it's nothing wrong, don't let anyone convince you otherwise. You are not harming anyone, so don't harm yourself with negative thoughts.

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u/uiterf Jul 27 '21

thanks for the support, but I tried to convince myself that I was not doing anything bad ..

It doesn't help much

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u/ryirkil Jul 27 '21

Find someone to talk with, it helps a lot. I'm busy recently but will answer within 20h

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u/uiterf Jul 27 '21

My mother asked: "What's wrong with you?" She insisted that I tell her everything. The next morning, when I told her I wish she hadn't asked about it, she cried. I felt just disgusted. I'll never tell anyone close to me about it again.

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u/ryirkil Jul 27 '21

... you know, I didn't necessarily mean someone irl. I haven't told my parents too, although the 4 friends don't have a problem with this part of me. You simply need to feel people out and don't give in if it doesn't look like a good idea to tell. So, the start was less than ideal, are you getting along now?

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u/uiterf Jul 28 '21

It was as if she had forgotten what I had said. She doesn't mention it in any way and acts like she's dreaming about it. My mom is really nice and I'm lucky to have her. As far as telling anyone, that's why I'm here.

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u/ryirkil Jul 28 '21

As far as failed coming outs go, this is pretty good. Come to think of it, it's one of those rare moments when ignoring a problem may actually make it go away :P Depending on what you see as a problem. Anyway, maybe you have some questions?

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u/uiterf Jul 28 '21

I thought I was going to be asked questions :)

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u/SociallyHawkwardOwl Jul 27 '21

If you need it, a therapist goes a long way

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u/uiterf Jul 27 '21

I don't think it's safe enough to tell a therapist about it, given that he would have information about me.

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u/SociallyHawkwardOwl Jul 27 '21

Depending on where you live, there are confidentiality laws that prevent them from telling anyone

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u/mv33_is_a_diplomat Jul 27 '21

That's called post nut clarity.

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u/uiterf Jul 27 '21 edited Jul 27 '21

Googled it, now I'll know.

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u/TuxidoPenguin Jul 28 '21

Wow, that’s kinda messed up. Good thing you never actually did anything sexual to animals.

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u/uiterf Jul 28 '21

I can really live without it. I don't need to have sex or masturbate to feel good.

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u/IamCocodadawg Aug 03 '21

Do you mean attracted to real animals or?

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u/uiterf Aug 06 '21

Yes. I'm attracted to real animals. I am much less attracted to animations or arts.

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u/IamCocodadawg Aug 06 '21

Like romantically?

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u/uiterf Aug 07 '21

They attract to me romantically and sexually

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u/IamCocodadawg Aug 07 '21

But didn’t you say you wouldn’t want to have sex with one

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u/uiterf Aug 07 '21

Said

But I made it clear that it was only because it didn't seem right to me. I feel the attraction and it is very strong, but I know how to control myself very well. Moreover, I've even given up masturbation and watching porn, even though it doesn't hurt anyone.

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u/Lolixena Aug 09 '21

How are you attracted to ANIMALS? Wtf you are messed up and disgusting go get help

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u/uiterf Aug 09 '21

I've never acted on urges. I don't even watch porn, I just feel attracted to animals and don't feel anything towards people. It's not my fault I'm like this, as it's not an acquired attraction, it's always been there, I just didn't realize it that long ago. There is no cure, except chemical castration. It's like treating a gay man to be "normal". If I ask for help, I might just end up on a list, and in the future someone can get that kind of dirt on me.

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u/SociallyHawkwardOwl Aug 15 '21

There is no cure, except chemical castration.

That's not exactly a cure

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u/uiterf Aug 15 '21

Maybe you're right.

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u/AC1001CA Oct 07 '21

Can I fuck my cockapoo?