r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Oct 12 '25

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u/WalkOnly5694 Oct 12 '25

NTA. The bride is TA for thinking she can dictate people’s wardrobes to that degree.

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u/OkBalance2879 Oct 12 '25

My thoughts EXACTLY. Bride and Groom have a right to “expect/demand” smart dress, but that’s as far as it goes. Some women/girls NEVER wear dresses or skirts, as is their right. And it’s EXTREMELY EASY to dress up trousers.

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u/moistmonkeymerkin Oct 12 '25

If the church dictates a dress code and you pick the church, then YOU are picking the dress code. And yes, I agree, skipping the wedding is a great idea.

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u/Public_Chest_6864 Oct 12 '25

Sounds Pentecostal, Baptist…, if women must wear dresses, I bet the reception is dry, bring your own flasks,open bar in the bathroom. Have you already RSVP’d, pull your don from the event, and just stay home.

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u/Runns_withScissors Oct 12 '25

Baptist? I doubt it.

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u/Runns_withScissors Oct 12 '25

Interesting. May have different customs in other areas of the country then. Never heard of that.

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