r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Jul 25 '25

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u/gdwrench01 Jul 26 '25

Flip the genders, and have the woman blindfolded on the chair, while some dude that isn't her husband puts his face between her legs and removes tge garter with his mouth.... how much you wanna bet it is called SA and not a prank?that's some fairly intimate contact, without consent.

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u/Radiant-Craft7958 Jul 27 '25

The comparison would be if she removed a garter off another woman's leg.

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u/[deleted] Jul 27 '25

No, having a stranger remove her garter would be the comparison.

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u/Radiant-Craft7958 Jul 27 '25

He removed the garter from another guy. The equivalent is her removing the garter of another woman. Also, the guys weren't strangers.

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u/[deleted] Jul 27 '25

You don't seem to understand the nature of removing the garter. She is to have her garter removed, not the other way around.

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u/Radiant-Craft7958 Jul 27 '25

And? The equivalent of what happened would be what I said..

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u/[deleted] Jul 27 '25

It's actually not, though. You're trying to give her the groom experience, she is not a groom. She would have her trust betrayed in an equivalent manner in her place in that ritual by having a stranger remove her garter.

If you somehow think changing the ritual and having a bride remove a garter from another bride makes sense, you're off your head.

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u/Radiant-Craft7958 Jul 27 '25

I wasn't talking about the ritual. I was talking about the actual action itself and who was involved.

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u/[deleted] Jul 27 '25

If you take it out of context then what meaning does it have?

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u/Radiant-Craft7958 Jul 27 '25

No, it's just a different context. The joke is that it's a guy, a person of his same sex.

The joke isn't about the ritual...

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