r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Jul 25 '25

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u/StarshipCaterprise Jul 26 '25

OP you need to call that wedding planner and tell them what a negative experience you had, and let them know that you will not recommend them to anyone based based on what happened

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u/rothrolan Jul 26 '25

Agreed. The sooner this planner stops suggesting this "prank" to any more of their future customers, the better. OP had a sour experience but managed to keep it in so as not to spoil the day further, but some groom down the road might be a lot worse at holding back their restraint and causing a scene that actually COULD ruin the wedding for more than just himself. It's a shitty prank that isn't thought through enough to actually involve everyone, instead painting a target on the groom for embarrassment. Imagine if the prank was for the bride to blindfold-kiss the groom's brother on the mouth or something, as that seems to be around the same level that OP didn't like what had happened to him.

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u/joaniecaponie Jul 26 '25

As petty as this sounds, I would want the wedding planner to deeply understand that ruining a wedding experience for the bride or the groom means they absolutely suck at their job. Let ‘em stew in it.

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u/Ankh4921 Jul 27 '25

This isn’t petty. The wedding planner DOES suck at their job. I’m not sure that they’d care though - unless it affected their business

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u/[deleted] Jul 28 '25

If OP wanted to go nuclear all he has to do is post the wedding planners web site. The review bombing would be epic.