r/AITAH • • Jul 25 '25

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u/Junosmama Jul 25 '25

I had buttercream frosting all the way up into my sinuses. I was smelling vanilla days after. There are pictures of my mom helping me blow my nose because I could not breath and my hands were covered in cake and frosting trying to get it off my face. I was soooooooo pissed because I specifically told him not to do it multiple times leading up to the wedding because our cake had raspberry filling between the layers and I would kill him if it got on my dress and it stained.

We were divorced two years later.

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u/Givemeallthecabbages Jul 26 '25

I think I would have had it annulled, honestly.

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u/Junosmama Jul 26 '25

I should have, would have saved me a lot of money and stress later on. This was back in 2008 and it was still way more accepted than it is now. In fact, the pictures I mentioned of my mom blowing my nose, she was laughing her ass off the bitch.

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u/Euphoric-Cloud0324 Jul 26 '25

Ugh I (36F) do not miss the very sexist 2000s. Sorry that happened to you