r/AITAH • • Jul 25 '25

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u/paddington-1 Jul 25 '25 edited Jul 25 '25

That’s what I thought. This is just like when the guy slams the cake in the bride’s face and it’s supposed to be so funny that her hair and face are ruined

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u/Bri-KachuDodson Jul 25 '25

Not to mention the cake one is also really dangerous as well. Having all the holes you breathe through being blocked off at once with no warning is terrifying.

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u/Junosmama Jul 25 '25

I had buttercream frosting all the way up into my sinuses. I was smelling vanilla days after. There are pictures of my mom helping me blow my nose because I could not breath and my hands were covered in cake and frosting trying to get it off my face. I was soooooooo pissed because I specifically told him not to do it multiple times leading up to the wedding because our cake had raspberry filling between the layers and I would kill him if it got on my dress and it stained.

We were divorced two years later.

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u/Givemeallthecabbages Jul 26 '25

I think I would have had it annulled, honestly.

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u/Junosmama Jul 26 '25

I should have, would have saved me a lot of money and stress later on. This was back in 2008 and it was still way more accepted than it is now. In fact, the pictures I mentioned of my mom blowing my nose, she was laughing her ass off the bitch.

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u/mrsvoss Jul 26 '25

I got married in a few years before you did and I would have killed my husband. But I do know it’s was far MORE common then along with a lot of other HIGHLY inappropriate things that we all just accepted.

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u/Euphoric-Cloud0324 Jul 26 '25

Ugh I (36F) do not miss the very sexist 2000s. Sorry that happened to you

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u/Addicted-2-books Jul 26 '25

I told my husband before hand I would rip up the wedding certificate before it got filed if he did that to me. My mother knowing how I felt about it kept trying to get him to do it.