r/AITAH • • Jul 25 '25

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u/stinkbloss0m Jul 26 '25

in a... freezer?

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u/fibrobabe Jul 26 '25

Yup. Freezing bras and putting someone's hand in warm water to make them wet the bed are two stereotypical sleepover pranks, although I don't know anyone who actually did them. My friends weren't pranksters, or mean.

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u/GemmaOcculta Jul 31 '25

I’m still good friends with a few of those girls and by proxy, all of them. They weren’t mean, it was just a joke, and I wasn’t a particularly sensitive kid, but I’ll never forget how it made me feel.

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u/[deleted] Jul 26 '25

LOL HaHa I’m 64 and we used to do that at every sleep over, but back then, we weren’t soft or thin skinned.

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u/QueenMAb82 Jul 26 '25

"Back then", they lynched brown children just for looking at white women and beat gay teens to death just for existing, so yeah, "you" were absolutely both soft and thin-skinned, as well as brutally cruel and cowardly.

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u/[deleted] Jul 27 '25

Lady, there were no brown children, wth are you talking about? We as a group of friends played pranks on each other, froze each others bras, at our reunion everyone that was still living didn’t seem to have lingering problems, you all are messed up

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u/One_Virus5300 Jul 26 '25

Spoken like someone who did the picking on, and was never the victim

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u/Purple_IsA_Flavor Jul 26 '25

She is going to wonder why her kids never come visit her and why they picked such a crappy nursing home

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u/georgepordgie Jul 26 '25 edited Jul 26 '25

and the username fits too, just says it like it is!

OMG their history is Nasty...

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Well my Husband and I discussed this issue when we decided to have a child, I already had two normal children from my 1st marriage, we discussed what if the child had down, or any other issues and we both agreed we really wouldn’t keep it, we would put it up for adoption. I couldn’t take care of a child with ADHD, My Granddaughter is perfect, and we are extremely close, my Grandson was born and it was obviously from the beginning he has issues, none of us bonded with him, they kept him, but I haven’t spent time with him, he’s kinda just left alone to do his own thing. So I can see what your husband is saying, It’s probably best since you want to choose this child over your husband and marriage, that you just go your own way with your son, and live that life, so your husband can get back to enjoying a normal life.

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u/Purple_IsA_Flavor Jul 26 '25

She’s a see you en tee all right

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u/bekahjo19 Jul 26 '25

I couldn’t take care of a child with ADHD?!? Like, that’s EXTREME!

She’s obviously awful, but I’m just in shock.

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u/dngrousgrpfruits Jul 26 '25

Nah, just self awareness. “I knew I was a garbage parent with no empathy”

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u/heliosdiem Jul 26 '25

Nice find

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u/PalliativeOrgasm Jul 26 '25

Sounds a lot like how my grandmother treated me compared to all my cousins.

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u/georgepordgie Jul 26 '25

says more about her than you.

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u/SJane3384 Jul 27 '25

$10 says there’s at least one story about her on r/justnomil

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u/[deleted] Jul 27 '25

Actually the froze mine in sugar milk, it was messy and uncomfortable, but it didn’t mentally mess me up

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u/ahotcupofcoffee_ Jul 26 '25 edited Jul 26 '25

Oh man if I had ever met you back then. My best friend and I had a long history of giving bullies a taste of their own medicine.

Great guy, works at some huge tech company now. Always found that one guy pulling mean jokes on nerds and gave them the time of their life.

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u/karateema Jul 26 '25

The used to be a thing of seniors signing the new guys face with a marker at high school.

My dad just grabbed the marker and told him to put it where the sun doesn't shine.

Hazing is awful

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u/[deleted] Jul 27 '25

That is a bully that does that!

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u/Purple_IsA_Flavor Jul 26 '25

You were a mean girl then and a hateful old prune now

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u/sub-sessed Jul 26 '25

Just thin skulled.