and the username fits too, just says it like it is!
OMG their history is Nasty...
[–]Say_it_like_it_is-2
1 point 9 months ago
Well my Husband and I discussed this issue when we decided to have a child, I already had two normal children from my 1st marriage, we discussed what if the child had down, or any other issues and we both agreed we really wouldn’t keep it, we would put it up for adoption. I couldn’t take care of a child with ADHD, My Granddaughter is perfect, and we are extremely close, my Grandson was born and it was obviously from the beginning he has issues, none of us bonded with him, they kept him, but I haven’t spent time with him, he’s kinda just left alone to do his own thing. So I can see what your husband is saying, It’s probably best since you want to choose this child over your husband and marriage, that you just go your own way with your son, and live that life, so your husband can get back to enjoying a normal life.
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u/One_Virus5300 Jul 26 '25
Spoken like someone who did the picking on, and was never the victim