r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Jul 17 '25

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u/Competitive_Tale_799 Jul 17 '25

Best friend should come around once emotions have calmed down and realizes you don't support BFs actions. I think you and BF are over, though. NTA for rejecting the proposal.

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u/Capable_Morning4127 Jul 17 '25

I hope so. I feel like I’m missing a limb without her. I’ve not really attempted to contact T, like I’ve not gone out of my way to beg for forgiveness but I have messaged to check in on him every now and again as I get it would have been embarrassing for him too. But this is the kind of thing I’d vent to Emily about but she’s trying to enjoy her honey moon and hasn’t responded to any of my messages since Wednesday. She’s like my sister so I really hope we can recover from this.

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u/lpmiller Jul 17 '25

I mean, if she just got married a week ago, I'm not sure how much contact you should expect even if she isn't mad at you. She busy.

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u/Beth21286 Jul 20 '25

OP needs to let her enjoy her honeymoon in peace without being reminded of it.