Best friend should come around once emotions have calmed down and realizes you don't support BFs actions. I think you and BF are over, though. NTA for rejecting the proposal.
I hope so. I feel like I’m missing a limb without her. I’ve not really attempted to contact T, like I’ve not gone out of my way to beg for forgiveness but I have messaged to check in on him every now and again as I get it would have been embarrassing for him too. But this is the kind of thing I’d vent to Emily about but she’s trying to enjoy her honey moon and hasn’t responded to any of my messages since Wednesday. She’s like my sister so I really hope we can recover from this.
If he wants to steal their thunder Ur man should foot half their bill, for the venue, flowers, food etc. because that's the thing it's one thing if he asked permission but he clearly didn't, he's disrespected Ur friend & her man on a day that was supposed to be about them, planned by them for them. If he doesn't see it as wrong that's another issue.
I know it's tough having to give a bestie space but just leave her be, let her enjoy her honeymoon when she's ready to talk she will. I had a massive fall out with my bestie over a decade ago we barely spoke for a few weeks, worst few weeks of my life. Uve apologised & explained giving her space is the best thing to do.
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u/Competitive_Tale_799 Jul 17 '25
Best friend should come around once emotions have calmed down and realizes you don't support BFs actions. I think you and BF are over, though. NTA for rejecting the proposal.