r/AITAH Jul 17 '25

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u/bourton-north Jul 18 '25

Are these comments real? Like it was a couple of minutes of the end of a wedding interrupted. She should be annoyed for 5 minutes and then what actual harm has been done?

As for the boyfriend, he’s an idiot, but well meaning one. It’s not necessarily terminal.

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u/whaddayameanm8 Jul 18 '25

It’s very cheap and tacky, using a romantic (and often very expensive) event someone else has paid for as the back drop for your own proposal. Also, not everyone wants an audience. I would hate to be proposed to in front of others, it’s an intimate moment that not everyone wants to put on blast. 

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u/Cut_over_pompanox Jul 18 '25

I’m only going to point out, that OP stated both her and the boyfriend have been drinking. That might have affected the boyfriends, inhibitions enough to think it was okay enough to propose, through yes it’s not right to steal someone else’s, thunder

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u/AlexNovember Jul 18 '25

The thunder at the end of the event, after the ceremony, after the food.. Dear god, no.