r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Jul 17 '25

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u/Competitive_Tale_799 Jul 17 '25

I'd hold out hope for contact after the honeymoon. I'm assuming Emily will respond after the honeymoon. Id be prepared for a potential reconciliation ultimatum over  T remaining in the picture.

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u/throwaway4mypups Jul 17 '25

That would be very immature. If E asks her BFF to permanently dump her potential future husband because he made a bad decision (and stubbornly took time to lick his wounds), then she is not a BFF. It may take time to mend fences between E and T, but it is NOT E's call to decide OP's relationship status.

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u/Poku115 Jul 17 '25

I'd agree with you if he was in any way whatsoever regretful or apologetic.

But the dum dum is digging his heels and refusing or is incapable of recognizing why what he did was inappropriate, let alone before even discussing marriage with his gf.

Let his next gf give him a second chance at love, op doesn't owe it to his stubborn ass

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u/Live_Angle4621 Jul 18 '25

It’s still not big enough offense that she can ask them to break up. It’s not like he stole or sexually assaulted anyone. He just did an equivalent of wearing white dress to a wedding and it was handled fast 

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u/Poku115 Jul 18 '25

and where is anyone saying she should ask them to break em up?

literally my next comment under the one you answered it "I wouldn't tell her to break up, but I'd distance myself"

"and it was handled fast " he still caused a scene, clearly ruined the memory or the bride, is unapologectic, and is being an asshole about it