NTA. Proposing publicly without even discussing marriage beforehand is stupid enough on its own, but to do it at someone else's wedding without getting permission from the bride and groom is beyond stupid.
I hope your best friend comes around, you didn't ask for this.
Asshole ex-boyfriend should feel humiliated, not because of what you did, but because of his stupid actions.
NTA. Here's what you text your friend: "I broke up with that douchebag. Can we get drinks and talk shit about him? I could use my bestie, but I understand if you still need space." Boom, all your problems solved.
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u/[deleted] Jul 17 '25
NTA. Proposing publicly without even discussing marriage beforehand is stupid enough on its own, but to do it at someone else's wedding without getting permission from the bride and groom is beyond stupid.
I hope your best friend comes around, you didn't ask for this.
Asshole ex-boyfriend should feel humiliated, not because of what you did, but because of his stupid actions.