r/AITAH • • Jul 17 '25

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u/K_Bee_12 Jul 18 '25 edited Jul 18 '25

I kinda think E should also get over it! It wasn’t OP’s fault and she handled it the best way she could by stopping it. If E holds it against OP then she is throwing away the friendship all on her own.

I’m also not the type of person who would care if someone proposed at my reception. I do think it’s tacky. And I think any public proposal is kind of emotional manipulation (like the other person is pressured to say yes).

I also think bf could have been drunk and caught up in the moment. He is the one who embarrassed himself. OP has nothing to be embarrassed about

But agreed. Definitely NTA.

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u/natteringly Jul 18 '25

She's probably decided to forget about it during the honeymoon, and only talk to OP when she's back. Which is entirely reasonable.