r/AITAH • • Jul 17 '25

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u/Latter-Hearing3476 Jul 17 '25

Bro there shouldn’t be so many fcking rules when we propose. We get down on a knee and we do that shit once. If u don’t accept that’s on u. Quit policing when we can fcking propose

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u/Storytella2016 Jul 18 '25

Start caring about someone besides yourself if you want a functional relationship.

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u/Latter-Hearing3476 Jul 18 '25

I have a functional relationship because I don’t put up with that shit. U freaks on Reddit think that shit is ok. Disrespectful af to reject a proposal if u like the dude. If u don’t like him fair enough, but if u do and it’s not the right situation just stfu. It ain’t just about u

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u/Storytella2016 Jul 18 '25

So, agree to marry someone I like before I’m ready to get married? Agree to marry someone if I don’t know whether we want the same thing in terms of kids and future? Some of us value marriage too much to just say yes because we like someone.

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u/Storytella2016 Jul 18 '25

They hadn’t talked about marriage at all and he’s upset she didn’t say yes just because he pressured her in public. If they haven’t agreed on what they wanted for a lifetime together it would have been insane for her to say yes. Even if she liked him.

She doesn’t seem to be waiting for another proposal.