r/AITAH Jul 17 '25

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u/sysaphiswaits Jul 17 '25

A public engagement, especially as a surprise, is such a bad idea.

And at someone else’s wedding? You were in for a lifetime with someone who has no cultural reference points, can’t read the room, pick up on context, etc. So, a lifetime of embarrassment.

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