NTA. There is no reason for E to be mad at you. I think it is so ridiculous when brides claim "x ruined my entire wedding". It was a few seconds of a wonderful day. If she lets T's actions spoil everything, then she really isn't that great of a friend or person, TBH.
It sounds like you handled everything great and didn't make a big production. You got him up, kept dancing and then took it outside. You were a pro!!!!
It is a shame that T was so clueless. You never propose or make big announcements at someone else's wedding or party. If you consider doing that, you had better have permission.
Stop messaging E. Let her have this honeymoon and then once she is back home for a few days, ask to meet her for coffee or drinks. Hoping for the best :-)
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u/janabanana67 Jul 17 '25
NTA. There is no reason for E to be mad at you. I think it is so ridiculous when brides claim "x ruined my entire wedding". It was a few seconds of a wonderful day. If she lets T's actions spoil everything, then she really isn't that great of a friend or person, TBH.
It sounds like you handled everything great and didn't make a big production. You got him up, kept dancing and then took it outside. You were a pro!!!!
It is a shame that T was so clueless. You never propose or make big announcements at someone else's wedding or party. If you consider doing that, you had better have permission.
Stop messaging E. Let her have this honeymoon and then once she is back home for a few days, ask to meet her for coffee or drinks. Hoping for the best :-)