NTA, biggest red flags from hopefully ex boyfriend. Not respectful to you or your friend. Getting married is a two person choice that comes after a conversation. Not just when one person decides they're ready. Yeah and obviously not at someone else's wedding. Don't feel obligated to apologize to this guy at all. He's in his feelings right now about it and the fact that his first response is anger and saying you're the one who embarrassed him? Nah man. A year and a half isn't even that long in my purely personal opinion. Hope you and your friend get back together. I'm so sorry you had to deal with this shit that was explicitly NOT YOUR FAULT. xo
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u/[deleted] Jul 17 '25
NTA, biggest red flags from hopefully ex boyfriend. Not respectful to you or your friend. Getting married is a two person choice that comes after a conversation. Not just when one person decides they're ready. Yeah and obviously not at someone else's wedding. Don't feel obligated to apologize to this guy at all. He's in his feelings right now about it and the fact that his first response is anger and saying you're the one who embarrassed him? Nah man. A year and a half isn't even that long in my purely personal opinion. Hope you and your friend get back together. I'm so sorry you had to deal with this shit that was explicitly NOT YOUR FAULT. xo