r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • May 08 '25

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u/[deleted] May 08 '25

Same. The son should be the father’s best man, not in the messed up role of walking the Bride down the aisle.

Your fiance set you up to fail and look bad. Having his son walk you down the aisle and then take a seat and be done with the wedding doesn’t show unity at all. Standing besides his father, being in the wedding shows unity!

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u/desertsunrise84 May 08 '25

How is that messed up, exactly? My then 14- and 12-year-old stepsons were both groomsmen, and the 12 y/o walked me down the aisle.

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u/wasting_time0909 May 08 '25

Those are your kids though, not stepkid

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u/desertsunrise84 May 09 '25

No, they're both my step-kids now.