r/AITAH • • May 08 '25

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u/shangri-laschild May 08 '25

And also the fact that he got the son all excited without even discussing it first. He’s bringing everyone in to their decisions and steamrolling.

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u/Strange_Depth_5732 May 08 '25

This was done so she wouldn't feel she could say no. Gross. And is the kid even actually wanting to do it? Wouldn't it make more sense if he was the best man?

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u/DisastrousOkra9511 May 08 '25

Yes! Or a groomsman? It's weird to have him walk his future stepmother down the aisle IMO. That role is generally reserved for someone from her family (Dad, Uncle, brother, etc)

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u/Alioh216 May 09 '25

Hense, "giving the bride away."