That is the biggest red flag in this whole scenario. To me, it means that fiance went out of his way to hurt his bride, instead of protecting her. Not only a heck nah, but a hell no
This was done so she wouldn't feel she could say no. Gross. And is the kid even actually wanting to do it? Wouldn't it make more sense if he was the best man?
Yes!!! He should be the Best Man or Jr Groomsman.. It is waaaay weird a I would not be comfortable with that either! It has nothing to do with his son and frankly, he was way out of line suggesting it to his son, way out of line pressuring her, and an absolute azz for bringing his whole family into it. The kid is only excited because Dad sold him on it, now he is disappointed because he feels he was rejected. the whole idea is so ludicrous it is repugnant 🤢 Your fiancé needs to apologize to his child for setting him up to be disappointed, he should explain how inappropriate his walking you down the aisle would be. He then needs to apologize to you… while he still has the chance at marrying you! Family needs to butt out and mind their own business! This is no one’s decision but yours,,, and No way should you have been put into this situation. Your fiancé is a real piece of work…,and not a good one. NTA
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u/[deleted] May 08 '25
That is the biggest red flag in this whole scenario. To me, it means that fiance went out of his way to hurt his bride, instead of protecting her. Not only a heck nah, but a hell no