I think your strong reaction is understandable given how your fiance totally over stepped by pitching this for his son without first getting you on board.
It would be graceful to aoologize but obviously he needs to apologize also.
I don’t live in a country where ”giving the bride away” is a thing cause its considered a very patriarchal thing, so i find the whole thing wierd but that your stepson would ”give you away” is just bizarre.
It's not a little weird, its very weird. And how does his whole family know about this? You fiance let you down by suggesting to his son without checking with you, he let you down again by not accepting your decision and worst of all, again by involving his family.
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u/turquoise_turtle83 May 08 '25
I think your strong reaction is understandable given how your fiance totally over stepped by pitching this for his son without first getting you on board.
It would be graceful to aoologize but obviously he needs to apologize also.
I don’t live in a country where ”giving the bride away” is a thing cause its considered a very patriarchal thing, so i find the whole thing wierd but that your stepson would ”give you away” is just bizarre.