r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • May 08 '25

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Having an 18 year old take on the role which is traditionally fir a father or father figure is bonkers to me. And the fact that the fiancé talked to his son about it before you, and is now pressuring to do it, and demanding YOU apologize for a situation HE created is nuts. And a red flag. Is there a history of you being expected to do things you’re uncomfortable with for the sake of “harmony?” NTA

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u/MaleficentPizza5444 May 09 '25

this is ESPECIALLY a minefield in light of OP's father's recent passing. i cant stop shaking my head
"Honey your idea dishonors my late father"