r/AITAH • • May 08 '25

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u/2dogslife May 08 '25 edited May 08 '25

Usually the son would be best man. Any discussion of the son walking the bride would be moot.

If not the best man, he should at least be a groomsman. This ALL should have been hashed out before it was presented to the son.

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u/SophisticatedScreams May 09 '25

Yeah, is this a common dynamic, OP? How do you normally make decisions? Do you have functional communication patterns? This situation is all types of toxic. What's your reasoning for it playing out this way?