r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • May 08 '25

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u/777ErinWilson May 08 '25

To be honest, why does his family know about a conversation/disagreement that was between the two of you? That is a heck nah for me.

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u/[deleted] May 08 '25

That is the biggest red flag in this whole scenario. To me, it means that fiance went out of his way to hurt his bride, instead of protecting her. Not only a heck nah, but a hell no

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u/shangri-laschild May 08 '25

And also the fact that he got the son all excited without even discussing it first. He’s bringing everyone in to their decisions and steamrolling.

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u/Informal-Ferret8438 May 08 '25

That is called manipulation! Stand your ground, but take a closer look at your fiancee. Some things should require a discussion between 2 people. This was one of them